FAQs About Internet Dating

Written by Susan Dunn, MA, Relationship Coach

If you’re interested in meeting new people to date,repparttar Internet match services are a great new option. The number of people joining them is staggering.

If you’re new torepparttar 130453 experience, here’s an FAQ for you:

Q: How can I be sure he’s not married? How can I be sure she’s not a felon? A: The bottom line – there are no guarantees about this or anything else in life. Unfortunately, deceptive people are good at deception and you can’t always tell. With time, experience and common sense you can pick up onrepparttar 130454 “red flags” earlier. In your favor isrepparttar 130455 fact that people tend to reveal more withrepparttar 130456 anonymity ofrepparttar 130457 Internet than in real life. From experience, I can tell you it’s likely you’ll be able to tell by their language and by their questions. They “spill.” For tips, email me for my free white paper, “How to Tell ifrepparttar 130458 Man You’re Dating is Married.”

Q: How can I avoid alcoholics and addicts? A: Again only time will tell, but here’s one tip. Whenrepparttar 130459 person checks “don’t drink”, this is a yellow flag, not a green light. Find out WHY they “don’t drink”.

Q: Do websites screen applicants? A: The good news is that some say they do. The bad news is they do it by requiring all registrants give their social security number. This will limit selection as many good single folks aren’t willing to put their social security numbers onrepparttar 130460 Internet.

Q: There are so many websites. What sites should I register on? A: Use your EQ to makerepparttar 130461 selection. Intuitively, when you gorepparttar 130462 site it will appeal to you or not. On one site, people sign in as “SeXy Fox” and “ReadyWillingAndAble”. On another, they use their first names, “Sam” or “Martha.” Which isrepparttar 130463 one for you? Are you after a man who leads with “Italian Stallion” or simply uses his name? Is someone who calls himself “C” hiding something or too “closed” for your tastes? The wayrepparttar 130464 sites phrase their questions can alert you to style as well.

Q: What type of person uses these sites? Q: Everyone’s usingrepparttar 130465 sites, but it’s especially well-suited for introverts. The normal progression is website, to normal email, to telephone calls to meeting in person. Introverts like a slow get-to-know-you. If you like introverts, you’ll find more of them on Internet dating sites than in local bars and social groups. Extraverts tend to jump steps inrepparttar 130466 process. Extraverts you can meet out and about.

Q: I’m sick of men (women) who just want a brief affair. I want marriage. How can I find someone else who wants what I want? A: That’s good – know what you want. Some sites let you choose an array of desires from penpals, to friendship, to marriage, so there’s one clue. Otherwise,repparttar 130467 only way you’ll know is to ask and find out.

Q: What kind of questions should I ask? A: Eharmony.com (http://tinyurl.com/2lyea ) has a long list of pre-selected questions you send back and forth that are good. Each time you have contact with someone and it works out or doesn’t, figure outrepparttar 130468 early clues and save yourself some time. You’ll quickly learn that when someone asks you a certain question right-off, they’re notrepparttar 130469 one for you. Their initial choices reveal a lot if you’re paying attention.

Tarot Cards & Tarot Readings

Written by Mary Shadow

Overrepparttar years I have used Tarot cards as a tool to gain insight, clarity and achieve greater control over issues in life. Many people wonder how a deck of cards can tell us anything but as we studyrepparttar 130449 cards we realize that they go way beyondrepparttar 130450 pictures that we see. As we userepparttar 130451 cards we gain a greater understanding of ourselves andrepparttar 130452 world around us. We can seerepparttar 130453 cards as a journey that each of us must take and complete to masterrepparttar 130454 lessons we are here to learn onrepparttar 130455 earth plane.

It is believed that Tarot Cards originated inrepparttar 130456 14th-15th centuries. There are many possibilities as to where tarot cards come from including Egypt, France, Italy, Spain, China and India.

The type of Tarot Card Deck used is based upon personal preference. I have usedrepparttar 130457 Rider Waite Tarot Deck and and Robin Wood Tarot Card Deck inrepparttar 130458 past. More recently, I have experimented usingrepparttar 130459 Goddess Tarot Deck. Many beginners like to userepparttar 130460 Rider Waite Tarot Deck. One piece of advice I shall give to you regarding chosing a deck, is to use a NEW deck of cards. A used deck of cards may be carryingrepparttar 130461 energy ofrepparttar 130462 previous owner and will interfere with your reading.

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