Many parents know that
best way for children to learn compassion and
importance of keeping commitments is by helping to care for a pet. Children learn from watching
adults in their lives. If a child can learn to treat an animal with respect they can take that lesson into later life. A cat can be a marvellous, loving companion for a child, but it is up to
adults in
family to ensure
cat and
kids live together happily ever after.
When you first bring a cat home, explain to your child that they will need to be patient, quiet and gentle to help
cat feel safe. Sit on
floor with your child and help him practice patience as
cat gets up
courage to come close. Let your child feed
cat a piece of food from his hand. If
cat is reluctant to come close, have your child gently toss a piece of food close to
cat. Once
cat realizes what your child is offering,
ice will melt.
Very young children can easily overwhelm a cat or kitten with their exuberance. Children under
age of five years should always be supervised when playing with or handling a cat. Children over 12 years can usually be trusted to be gentle, but be sure to occasionally check up on kids under 12 years when they spend concentrated time with
family cat.
You should remind children that they should not disturb a sleeping cat, or a cat that is using its litter tray.
Kittens appear to be amazingly flexible, and children often think nothing of draping a weeks-old cat over
crook of
arm and carrying it around like a toy, or picking up a kitten by
scruffof its neck. In this position, it is easy for
kitten to be dropped and seriously injured. Also, being carried like this leaves
cat feeling unsupported with it's hind legs swinging in space.