Do you often feel lonely, anxious, or even depressed? Is a mid-life or quarter-life crisis threatening your confidence, self-esteem and well-being? Do you yearn for practical advice on enhancing, balancing and bringing new joy to your personal and professional life?Tens of millions of Americans answer a resounding “yes” to one or more of those questions. After all, statistics report that more than 19 million of us are diagnosed with depression each year. Here are seven simple exercises to enhance your life for a lifetime:
1) ACCEPT THE LESSONS THAT ARE PRESENTED TO YOU
At times, we like to play
victim role when things happen to us that are painful and difficult. First, change your attitude towards those events. A change in your mindset creates miraculous shifts in energy. Changing your perspective makes a negative situation suddenly appear positive.
Next, spend time with yourself to understand challenge for what it really is by journaling and/or meditating. In your quiet time, ask yourself why situation or person was presented to you.
Appreciate person, thing or experience that brings you lesson. Recognize that these situations are impetus for change. For instance, we may have a boss that makes our job so difficult that we decide to find a new job.
Then, when we find this new career and love it, we wonder why we didn’t change jobs sooner. In this scenario, it is important for us to realize that if we didn’t have a boss who made us want to leave our job, then we might have never left.
2) APPRECIATE ALL THINGS – GREAT AND SMALL
The lack of happiness stems from lack of recognizing that we do indeed have so much to be thankful. Even person who feels that they have nothing, upon introspection, they can find that they are blessed with abundance. For instance, do we think about gift of sight or gift of hearing? These are indeed gifts and we often forget that they are gifts.
Take time to observe someone who suffers with some type of physical impairment. For instance, how long does it take them to get from their car to front door of grocery store? How long does it take them to do their grocery shopping? Perhaps, it takes them twice as long as you do or even longer. Whatever that time may be, we take for granted that we can just park, hop out of our car and go shopping. Instead, look around and observe how much you have.
