Don’t Argy-Bargy, Simply Do It!

Written by Stephanie West Allen


THE SERIOUS WORTH OF SILLY

“Serious things cannot be understood without humorous things Nor opposites without opposites.” Plato

Silly things can help us to achieve important things. Today will be a silly day.

Echo-words are so much fun to say. They feel good on our tongue and often make us laugh -- at least when we first hear them. I just learnedrepparttar term argy-bargy, and I laughed when I heard it. It means an argument or to argue; it’s both a noun and a verb. Its cousin is argle-bargle withrepparttar 131225 same definition.

Argy came from argument and then it picked up an echo alongrepparttar 131226 way and became argy-bargy. Can you imaginerepparttar 131227 possible results when you begin to userepparttar 131228 term? “Let’s not argy-bargy.” That alone might defuse any tense situation. Incorporate it into your vocabulary and enjoyrepparttar 131229 pattern interrupt whenever you use it.

Hurly-burly is another echo-word. Hurly comes fromrepparttar 131230 root meaning to howl. Sometime in history burly joined hurly because it rhymed. We seem to like echo words -- hodge-podge, wishy-washy, what else?

A BUNCH OF GIBBERISH

Make an echo for your name. Make several. Say aloud: “My name is Julie-bulie, or Stephanie-yephanie, or Richard-slichard [use your own name, of course].” You are messing around and messing around is good. Messing around loosens uprepparttar 131231 paths in your brain andrepparttar 131232 habits of your tongue. Messing around supports your creativity.

“I like nonsense. It breaks uprepparttar 131233 brain cells.” Dr. Seuss

Now for more messing around, more creativity push-ups. Talk gibberish. Say only nonsense syllables. If you have trouble starting, take each ofrepparttar 131234 vowels sounds and use variations of them. O, zo, po, kwo, ifmo, noto, tooro, ogtolopo.

You might want to find a friend and have a whole conversation in gibberish. You will be surprised atrepparttar 131235 level of communication. (We often use gibberish in training programs to how much of communication is nonverbal.) And you will surprised at how much you will laugh. Remember all those gifts that laughter gives you?

6 Steps To Making A BIG Change

Written by Jan Tincher


Do you want to make a change, but you don’t know how? Do you want to make a change, but you’ve made changes before and they haven’t *stuck?* Do you want to make a change, but you don’t see it worth expendingrepparttar effort?

Check out these six steps and see if this will work for you.

One: Decide what you really want.

Decide what you really want, and then look at what is preventing you from having it NOW.

Look at each one ofrepparttar 131223 thoughts that are preventing you from having it now, and ask yourself these questions about each thought:

Could I allow myself to welcome this thought? Could I allow myself to accept this thought? Could I allow myself to release this thought? To just let it go?

Then, when you’ve answered them, go on to these questions:

Could I release it? (This is different than *Could I ALLOW myself to release this thought.*) Would I release it? When?

It’s perfectly OK for no to be an answer. This is just to get your mind used torepparttar 131224 idea of releasing thoughts that have kept you from accomplishing your goals.

Two: Get leverage.

Get leverage by associating extreme pain to NOT changing NOW, and extreme pleasure torepparttar 131225 experience of changing NOW. Do a lot of visualizing here. If you need help, go to http://www.tameyourbrain.com/powerpicture.htm

Three: Releaserepparttar 131226 pattern that is limiting you.

In order to releaserepparttar 131227 pattern that is limiting you, you need to identify what that pattern is, then userepparttar 131228 same technique in step one for releasing it. Also, you may find additional information here: Http://www.tameyourbrain.com/beliefpattern.htm

Four: Create a new, empowering alternative.

What can be a thought pattern that would empower you?

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