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How Well Do You Know Your Partner?
For my birthday last year my wife made up a beautifully framed picture of my name, and then underneath it she listed 32 positive qualities I possess. Needless to say, it was one of
finest gifts I have ever received. Some of
qualities even taught me about me. After that wonderful gift, my wife, son and daughter (kids are 6 and 4 years old) put together a similar "Greatest Daddy" list for Father's Day last year that warms my heart to this day. It lists both behaviors and personal traits of me as a father.
Today's topic is around this very thing… how well do you know your partner and how well are you known by your partner? Usually there's a passionate fire early in
relationship, which brings a desire to know everything about your new partner that there is to know. This is wonderful and a great way in which to become acquainted with one another. All good beginnings usually have many question and answer sessions. As you come to know each other at deeper and deeper levels, you become close friends.
There's a dangerous myth (maybe more than one!) floating around about couples. It's once you know all there is about him or her, that's all there is to know. The truth is that you grow, adapt and change all
time. We all do. Unfortunately, unless you and your partner take time to know one another as you grow over time, you lose touch with who your partner is. This leads to a sense of disconnection, and
distance which follows, can cost you your friendship. A couple's friendship is vital to
long-term survival and quality of
relationship.
Today is a primer for becoming re-acquainted with each other. It's not for scuffing, only for fun. Take time to answer each of
questions below and set a date… yeah, that's right - A DATE, and plan to share your answers with each other over a nice evening out somewhere.