Does Insecurity Halt Your Personal Growth?

Written by Brian Maloney


Everyone big or small, old or young would love to feel a sense of security and well being all ofrepparttar time in such a seemingly short life.

However, through life’s trials of inevitable ups and downs, we sometimes believe that our self worth is supposed to be sub-par, as ifrepparttar 128679 world saw that if we were strong inside, it wouldn’t function properly. Earth’s axis would go into some unhealthy tilt and its rotation would cease.

We wouldn’t be serving ourself or anyone else correctly if this were true, so why are we content to become less than what we can be and settle with our comfortable insecurities that we know so well?

Most people, if you were to strip them of everything they have inside, are merely searching for love and meaning in their lives; but to some, it is a never-ending, self-fulfilling prophecy of dead ends and wrong routes taken.

You are always going to be your worst enemy and suppresser in seeking your personal nirvana!

If you were your biggest fan, you would clone yourself and when you stepped up to bat, there would be 75,000 screaming you’s cheering for your success. Insecure people takerepparttar 128680 pleasure in feeding a massive dose of negativity inwards and therefore would love to stay as a boo bird hoping for your own failure.

After all, isn’t that what society would love to have happen to you? Stay down withrepparttar 128681 masses and wallow inrepparttar 128682 mire with them, because misery loves company.

You were probably taught by society or learned this yourself, but certainly, you were not born with this affliction.

Have you ever heard that it’s all in your head? Ninety nine percent of your success whether professionally, personally, or athletically comes from inside you and your physical attributes are merely that, tangible aspects of you and thats all.

If you were given ninety health filled days to live, how would you live them? Would you throw everything atrepparttar 128683 wall, putrepparttar 128684 petal torepparttar 128685 metal, diverepparttar 128686 deepest blue sea, scalerepparttar 128687 highest peak?

Although, you could live truthfully, confident, secure in yourself, and show allrepparttar 128688 beautiful colors that you came into this world with, those colors that have been skewed and faded for such a long time.

5 WAYS TO FEEL SUPER-OPTIMISTIC: Tips for Your Health, Wealth, & Career Success

Written by Maryann Troiani, Psy.D.


Optimism isrepparttar hidden key to your personal and business success. Optimists possess a clear vision of an exciting life, confidently work on goals to achieve their vision, and take self-responsibility. In contrast, pessimists have no clear vision of a fantastic life, and they love to complain, blame, and moan.

How can you become more optimistic? I will divulge five little-known “secrets” to help you immediately feel upbeat, confident, and optimistic. Research: Why Optimism Is Good for You Tons of research prove that optimists do vastly better than pessimists in their 1. Health 2. Wealth 3. Career success

Health. A growing body of "psychoneuroimmunology” medical research links how a person’s emotions affect his or her health. Some intriguing findings: Optimistic people are less likely to get sick than pessimistic or depressed people. This includes illnesses ranging from common colds to cancer. Optimistic people also get well faster than pessimists.

Wealth. A fascinating study found that self-made millionaires worry much less than people who earn as much money but have not achieved millionaire status. What isrepparttar 128678 connection between being optimistic and making yourself into a millionaire? Optimists are much more likely than pessimists to make a goal of achieving millionaire status. They also keep plugging away at being frugal, investing wisely and working hard to turn financial dreams into reality. In contrast, pessimists are less likely to set net-worth goals or consistently take actions to become millionaires. Career Success.

Many companies use our firm’s Abilities & Behavior Forecaster™ pre-employment tests when choosing applicants. To start, a company has high-achievers takerepparttar 128679 test. Also, underachievers may takerepparttar 128680 test. Then, we identify howrepparttar 128681 high-achievers score, sorepparttar 128682 company can prefer hiring applicants who score like its profitable, productive employees. Intriguing finding: One ofrepparttar 128683 Forecaster™ test’s 18 scales is Optimism. Typically, high-achievers typically score high onrepparttar 128684 Optimism test scale, while underachievers score moderate or low on Optimism. This repeated finding verifies that optimists achieve greater career success than pessimists.

So, how can you boost your optimism to achieve greater health, wealth, and career success?

Here are five immediately useful techniques. Each takes only one minute to do, so you can start fast and get results today. 1st Technique: Straight Posture & Big Steps

Optimistic people use straight posture, walk fast, and take big steps. Pessimistic people slouch, walk slowly, and use small steps. Imagine seeing someone walking with his or her head held high, shoulders back, walking fairly fast with big steps. That person exudes confidence. In contrast, a person whose head and shoulders slouch and walks with slow, small steps reeks a gloomy mood.

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