Two years ago, I had a job in corporate world. I had an office, a good salary, and privilege of being known and respected for consistently doing a job well done. Even though I was successful, I'd been unhappy in my career for years. I stayed put because I was comfortable, tied to money, loved adrenaline rush that deadlines produce, and enjoyed compliments I received from my boss and peers.Secretly, I was building a business on side. I was coaching people to live their dreams in evenings and weekends. Although my clients were living lives they loved, I couldn't say I was doing same.
Then, I got laid off. I was devastated, confused, and I felt betrayed. But I was one of many who were worried and wondering which direction to take next. Little did I know at time, that this was day I became a full time coach.
They say first year of getting a business off ground is tough, and they're not kidding. Everything you said was someone else's job or another department's responsibility when you were an employee becomes your responsibility when you own your own business. It's overwhelming, confronting, and one of hardest things I've ever done in my life.
Today, I have a thriving coaching practice. And, I have started another coaching company that is beginning to grow. I have never been happier. I owe my success to being able to imagine myself successful, visualizing victory in future. Or, in other words, I took charge on my career.
So, How Can You Take Charge Of Your Career? Follow The Steps Below:
1. Accept Where You Are
Stop blaming world for your predicament and forgive those who caused your situation. (Because it does not serve you.) Most importantly, forgive yourself. Acknowledge where you are today because you know you cannot reach a better tomorrow without this.
2. Decide You Will Win
Recognize that you worked too hard to get to where you are in your career, and you are not about to lose it now. Decide that your present situation will not get best of you. Let go of shoulds, and reasons why you can't have what you want in your career. Make a plan, and go after what you truly deserve.