Bugatron Gold is a well-designed space-shooter game borrows ideas from classics such as Galaga. In Bugatron, you must eradicate evil alien insects, which swoop and dive at your spaceship in a variety of formations. The polished graphics added to our enjoyment, and sound effects are blasting cool.

Recently, a couple from Delaware brought their father into our lifecare community to look at apartments in independent living neighborhood. When I spoke to son on phone, I asked him how his father was managing at home. His reply was confident, "My Dad is fine, and does everything for himself." We set appointment for later that week.

On day of appointment they arrived with Dad. I was concerned when I saw him. He was a tall, frail man, wearing a disheveled warm-up suit that looked like it needed washing. He could have also used a shave. However, when I reached for his hand to shake it, his bright blue eyes sparkled and he gave me a big smile, and a warm ”Hello.”

As we walked down hall to see an apartment older gentleman pulled me aside and quietly confided, "I can't do this. My legs are too weak to walk this far." I knew he needed Assisted Living, where rooms and distances are more manageable, and 24-hour personal care is available.

I turned to son and explained situation. As our parents age, sometimes they need extra care and assistance. Everyone wants their parents to live independently as long as possible, but ability to make good decisions and to care for oneself can slowly decline. Then there may be a crisis, and immediate and sometimes emergency need for help of another caring adult becomes suddenly apparent.