In last week or so, I've begun enrolling people in next session of my Platform Push Coaching Program on my other site, www.getknownnow.com. And boy, has that been interesting. In a few brief encounters, I've learned a lot about power of permission. The course is demanding; it requires these coaching students to really make a commitment to building their platform. Over six months they work on creating a brand phrase and identity, creating a branded website, setting up media kits, head shots, developing ezines and blogs, speaker materials and media mailings. The course requires a lot, but it promises a lot, too.
So I find myself speaking to many of my registrants as they make decision whether or not to join program. Some are on fence for technical reasons that are hard to overcome, but many are simply on fence. This is how these conversations go:
ME: "Hi, it's Suzanne calling about Platform Push Coaching Program you were interested in." THEM: (Enthusiastically) Hi Suzanne! ME: So how are your platform building efforts coming? THEM: (Audible groan/sigh/exhalation of breath) Well... (another sigh) .... I don't know.
That audible groan comes up in nearly every phone call. Nearly every one! Rare is person who simply says, "I'm not interested in promoting at moment," or even "I haven't made time to focus on it." Instead, there's just groan.
What that groan says to me is that getting known by public scares them. Even thinking about it makes them feel small and inadequate. And yet they know that they must if they want to reach people they're meant to. So they feel both guilty and annoyed with themselves at same time. (Sound familiar?)
I can relate to this completely, which is why I developed this work in first place. It's hard to do this stuff -- not for technical reasons, but simply because of what it portends. 'They', general public, may finally know us. They might love us. Or they could potentially kick sand in our faces. And that's scary.