Desire, Descopline, Dedication

Written by Pavel Lenshin


DESIRE, DISCIPLINE & DEDICATION

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Somewhere I read an instructive speculation about exceptional role that dedication or perseverance as well as desire play in any self-made entrepreneur's life.

Indeed. There are many smart people out there with a diploma or even two, yet very few of them have reached their life goals. Onrepparttar contrary,repparttar 123500 dominating share of those outstanding people very often represent middle or even lower middle class, being teachers of some country school or low paid consultants. The same, if not more, is true with many unordinary talented people, who happened to lead a secluded life far from money and fame. Sadly to say, but those people of art are usually recognized after their death only.

So what character features are important to succeed if it is not for talent or education? What features many of those gifted people lack in their youth in order to prove their talent, become famous worldwide and be recognized during their lifetime, not after?

One can say money or some authority power. It is true, but partially. While a person, especiallyrepparttar 123501 one, who lives in authoritarian society can get almost anything s/he wants withrepparttar 123502 help of a bureaucratic and corrupted political power or substantial financial support, several objection exists. The first one is that power as well as money is not endless and eternal, and it is impossible to save a sinking (for any reason) boat with several dip-buckets forever. Secondly,repparttar 123503 success achieved that way is more likely to be a gift that might have been given to any man or woman, but not a personal achievement, so, as we see,repparttar 123504 crucial role here is not played by a third party support as well.

Some people truly believe it to be luck. Many times we have heard from those people something similar to: "it is not my day" or "just my luck!". They got used to blame everything and everybody, but themselves inrepparttar 123505 lack of fortune, instead of understandingrepparttar 123506 simple truth, that luck is what we think and do. Negative thoughts and disbelief accompanied with absence of desire to do anything will get "bad day" and "no luck" in 99 out of 100. Onrepparttar 123507 other hand, positive thinking, i.e. strong will to reachrepparttar 123508 goal, dedication and persistent action will break any obstacle onrepparttar 123509 way you move. You may or may not happen to meet people, who will greatly assist you and it is a normal life flow, there is no direct mathematical order, but if you are left completely alone it is not a reason to complain ofrepparttar 123510 luck or money absence, bad weather or horoscope.

Are We Our Own Worst Enemies?

Written by Linda Offenheiser


If we all haverepparttar potential for success, why aren't we all successful? Do you believe in yourself? Attitude plays a significant role in determining how well we do. As Henry Ford said, "Whether you believe you can do a thing or not, you are right". Considerrepparttar 123499 friend, we all have one, who is constantly putting himself down, constantly bemoaningrepparttar 123500 fact that he can't do this or can't do that. The reason he can't do it is because he doesn't haverepparttar 123501 confidence to try! His own negative attitude has defeated him before he even begins. To some degree that applies to all of us. How many times have you thought of something you'd really like to do but convinced yourself you didn't know enough or didn’t haverepparttar 123502 skills necessary to actually do it? You could've gainedrepparttar 123503 knowledge you needed and you probably could've developedrepparttar 123504 skills required . . . unless of course you're tone deaf and want to become a concert pianist! How many of our dreams die just because we don't haverepparttar 123505 confidence to go after them? We must believe in ourselves and in our abilities if we want to succeed. If we don't how can we expect anyone else to? We must believe that we can achieve anything we set our minds and our hearts to as long as we're willing to work for it. Without this confidence we'll never progress, never develop new skills and . . . never succeed. Is it all "luck"? You hear friends referring to their "bad luck" as a reason for failure. Sure, circumstances do play a role in how well we do but many of them can be manipulated to work in our favor. If you planned to open an outdoor café it would probably not be a good idea to build it inrepparttar 123506 Arctic Circle. However, we do things that are just as ridiculous allrepparttar 123507 time. Then we say it was "bad luck" that prevented our success.

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