by Carole Nicolaides © 2002 http://www.progressiveleadership.comWhat is
one strength that - if you worked on it - would make
difference in your profession? Is it your ability to draw pictures? Translate feelings into beautiful visual images? Take words and put them into persuasive sentences? Are you especially clever with numbers? Can you sing acappella? Can you inspire people at work? The answers to all these questions will be clues to your natural talents, and most likely to your true purpose in life. Acknowledging and dedicating yourself to your natural talents is
path to excellence, success, and effortless abundance.
One of my gifts has always been my ability of asking questions. It seems others appreciate that I ask questions in a non-threatening way that allows others to see their own issues and usually
solutions to their problems. I took this gift for granted for many years. As someone who was in medical training, I thought this was a normal thing to do. Inquiring, and trying to get to
root of peoples’ illnesses was all part of becoming a doctor.
I realized that this was not such an easy task for every medical student. Later on, when I abandoned
medical profession and started working in
business realm,
same gift helped me again. My ability to ask
right questions at
right moments helped technical projects to move ahead, made people feel good about themselves, and brought business satisfaction within very challenging operations. Once again, I was focusing all my energy in developing other special competencies of mine, but not acknowledging my natural gift. Why?
Only after 30 something years did I realized that my gift - my brilliance - lies in my ability to ask questions. Once I internalized this wisdom, acknowledged my gift, and stopped denying it, I was able to find my true path in life and start doing work in a way that is deeply fulfilling. The beauty of it is - once you stop fighting it - you get answers to all
things that you once had questions about. You are still working hard, but excellence comes much more easily.
So many people, when asked what they are gifted at, reply either “I don’t know” or “nothing.” How sad! I am pretty confident that you have at least one thing that you do well. If you do not know about it, then ask your family or friends and they will point something out. Everyone has something unique to offer in this world. Some have strengths that are abundantly obvious. Others, like me, have gifts that may take some investigation to uncover.
Knowing your strengths will allow you to tap into your inner desires, from which you can plot your path of life. Everything is interrelated. Your strengths will reveal your true blueprint in life.
Whether you’ve discovered your strengths or not,
sad truth is that most people do not take
time to develop their gifts. A prime example is
person who works hard, struggling to rise to
top, while ignoring
very things that come naturally to them. Unfortunately, it happens every day.