Dealing with the Difficult Manager

Written by Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach


When you have an impossible manager, quit? Sometimes that’s impossible. Here are some things to consider if you must remain there.

1.Get a coach.

Clarify what’s going on and come up with strategies. Learn more about yourself and how to deal with others. That’s a win-win. Don’t leave any situation without learning from it.

2.The company culture.

Ifrepparttar norm is hostility and incompetence, you won’t be changing it, and you can count on it getting worse. Should your particular manager leave, another one similar will be hired.

3.Everything else is excellent.

If there’s something important or meaningful you’re getting out ofrepparttar 115290 job, stay, but don’t get lulled in to staying forever. It will get worse, not better, and eventuallyrepparttar 115291 balance will tip, so be prepared.

4.Your outlook

Your attitude can always improve a situation. Work with your coach, and surround yourself with positive people. Jobs and managers come and go. The only disastrous outcome would be for you to become cynical and pessimistic about yourself, life, or people in general.

5.Are you inrepparttar 115292 loop?

There’s power in numbers. Sometimes your colleagues can make up for a bad manager.

6.Age and career potential ofrepparttar 115293 manager.

Use your gut instincts to evaluaterepparttar 115294 situation. Someone new may not last. If young and new,repparttar 115295 chances are even greater. If they’re middle-aged and dug in like a tick, they’ll endure and you won’t. Use your gut to tell you who’s on-the-move and who has moved in to stay. If they’re liked by superiors, should there be a confrontation, they’ll be staying, you’ll be leaving.

What You Need to Know Before Starting a Low Carb Diet

Written by Nancy Andrews


Inrepparttar last 12 months or so, low carbohydrate diets have capturedrepparttar 115289 hearts and weight loss hopes ofrepparttar 115290 American public. And why not? These diets promise quick weight loss andrepparttar 115291 ability to keep eating fatty foods. If you love your steak and eggs, this seems likerepparttar 115292 ultimate diet. However, before signing up,repparttar 115293 low carb diet bears a review. Is it reallyrepparttar 115294 right diet for you?

The premise ofrepparttar 115295 Atkins or any low carbohydrate diet is that carbohydrates arerepparttar 115296 source of all our weight loss woes. There is some real substance torepparttar 115297 argument in that we Americans have been eating excessive amounts of refined carbohydrates which have caused many of us to become insulin resistant asrepparttar 115298 body continues to wage war against repeated blood sugar spikes brought on by our poor eating habits.

The Atkins diet and other very low carbohydrate diets take your body out of a sugar burning state by practically eliminating all carbs for an induction period that can last two weeks or more. The body will continue to burn sugar as it primary energy source until it essentially runs dry and then converts to burning fat. Duringrepparttar 115299 conversion,repparttar 115300 dieter can feel tired, irritable, have headaches or get dizzy. Once you get past this incredibly tough period, you are allowed to eat a few carbs, but generally not more than 60 grams a day. That’s like eating one bagel a day and then stopping. This is a difficult road to follow for a liftetime.

In fact, a recent study showed that most adults who start a low carbohydrate diet quitrepparttar 115301 diet within a year. Admittedly, there is great progress by Atkins and other food manufacturers to dramatically reducerepparttar 115302 amount of effective carbs in some food offerings that could be classified as comfort foods (e.g., muffins, brownies, yogurt and more). This helps but you cannot have much if you want to stay withinrepparttar 115303 diet guidelines.

In addition torepparttar 115304 loss of almost all traditional comfort foods, by cutting out carbohydrates,repparttar 115305 diet is also cutting out a lot of foods that are good for us. Fruits and vegetables have fiber, vitamins and phytonutrients that help keep us healthy. Limiting fiber while consuming a lot of saturated fat, is notrepparttar 115306 most heart healthy diet.

The low carb diet does take a person out of a primary sugar burning state into a fat burning state. However, some literature makes it sound as though you cannot burn fat any other way. The fact is that we are all burning some fat, we may just be adding more fat faster than we burn it. Modifyingrepparttar 115307 diet to eliminate refined carbohydrates and focusing on high quality protein and good fats will gradually trainrepparttar 115308 body to burn more fat and less sugar.

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