When most "dating gurus" and sex therapists spout their dating tips, they often complicate whole process with unusable theory and psychobabble.
I’m going to bypass that, make it brain-dead simple for you, and most importantly, reveal a few dating tips you can apply in real world. In these dating tips, I'm going to share with you little-known concept of "three types of women.”
There's a wonderful book you should read called "Winning Through Intimidation" by Robert Ringer. You can get it on Amazon for a few bucks (get original version published in 1970's, not new "touchy feely" one.) Many people are turned off by title, thinking it's about "scaring" people into giving you what you want. That's not what it's about, though. It's actually about protecting yourself from intimidation. It's also a fun read, full of hilarious stories and even a few cartoons (of turtles wearing sunglasses). But it's a book each and everyone looking for dating tips needs to read, because part I'm about to share with you absolutely applies to interacting successfully and effortlessly with sexy women.
In book, Ringer talks about three types of people in business world- and in my experience he's 100% correct. Here they are. Type #1- this is guy who is out to get all your "chips" and lets you know about it. This guy is "straightforward" about his intentions, what some would call honest. Type #2 this is guy who assures you he is not out to get your "chips", and in fact, tells you he wants you to get everything that is coming to you. Then he attempts to grab all your "chips" anyways. Type #2's are most treacherous type. Type#3: this is guy who assures you he is not out to get your chips, and sincerely means it, but by his bumbling, stumbling or just pure incompetence he winds up trying to take them anyways (even though he doesn't mean to). How do “three types” translate into a usable dating tip?
And, how does all of this relate to success with attracting sexy women? Well, it's been my experience that women fall into, roughly, these three types as well. Type #1: she's straightforward with you about her intentions… whether she's into "fun friends," or looking for a husband, she is forthright with you up front. She knows herself and what makes her happy. Type #2: this is woman who appears to be straightforward with you about what she wants… but for whatever reason, she's out to get your money, deliberately break your heart, or she's just pissed at all men -what a female friend of mine called a "cruel woman." Like above type #2, operative word here is "treacherous." Type #3: this is woman who truly believes herself when she tells you what she's looking for, but for whatever reason, bad things seem to happen around her… she "self sabotages" whenever things are going good, and winds up wreaking great emotional havoc on men in her lives, even though she doesn't mean to. The result is still same as dealing with a Type #2, though, and that’s why it’s vitally important you pay close attention to above dating tips.