How often do your married friends complain about husbands who spend weekends on
couch watching games? Did they not notice these guys were sports fanatics while they were dating? Did they think things would change after
wedding?Life is fraught with ups and downs, so it's critical to marry someone you can have fun with, today and fifty years from now. Here's how you can find that person:
1. Write down a list of
things you like to do. Then do them. I have a theory that if all
singles who claim to enjoy long walks on
beach actually took long walks on
beach, they'd meet, get married, and
personal ad industry would collapse.
If you like to read, hang out in a bookstore. If
bookstore has a cafe, become a regular there. If you like beer and bands, grab a friend and get to know
faces at a neighborhood bar (take a cab; no drinking and driving, please).
Do what you like to do.
This technique worked for a good friend of mine. After discovering that his longtime girlfriend had been cheating on him, he left her. Then he gave himself time to mourn and moved on.