Did you know that Match.com has around twelve million members, but only a million or so of those listed have paid their dues? The most asked questions from Romance Clients? "Why don't they answer my emails?" Well, first off, you don't know and never will. But it’s a pretty good guess is that this guy or lady is cheap.
If you have had much experience as an Internet dater, you've undoubtedly had
experience of putting out first email contacts to prospective Sweetheart and then gotten no answer back. A response rate of 30% to first emails is considered good!
On Match.com as well as many of
other Internet dating sites, you can post a profile for free, but you have to pay to email other listers or respond to emails sent to you.
You can't tell
payers from
freeloaders. And people who aren't paid members can't email, either to contact you first, or to answer when you write. That means that a very high percentage of those people you are carefully looking over are too cheap to pay less than a dollar a day to be able to email you!
Maybe that’s a lot of what’s behind
30% who do get back to you. They're
only ones who are paid up!
Though I live now in Mississippi with my new husband Drew, I'm from Maine. I still own a house there on a beautiful island in
mid-coast area, so I get back to visit once or twice a year. Every spring, after
snow melts, all
debris that has accumulated over
winter along
roadsides gets exposed to
light of day. And along with tulips and daffodils, up spring
"For Sale" signs.
For years I wondered about why so many houses came up for sale every spring. Every other house seems to be on
market.