Credibility. It's not what you think.

Written by Michel Neray


Look up 'Credible' in Websters Dictionary and you'll find: "Capable of being credited or believed; worthy of belief; entitled to confidence; trustworthy."

OK, so no surprise there.

Credibility gives you permission to speak, and givesrepparttar person you're speaking to permission to listen.

Regardless of whether you are inrepparttar 119935 service business or you sell a hard product, everyone needs to establish their credibility, especially with prospective clients. But if you're a consultant, advisor, or coach, then it's harder for your clients to evaluaterepparttar 119936 value of your advice and recommendations.

For you, credibility is everything. And if you have it, you can move quicker into a more productive discussion about issues and solutions without having to justify everything you say. You can be more relaxed. You can let your guard down a little.

With your credibility clearly established, you can be more confident to ask forrepparttar 119937 business.

So far, I'm not telling you anything you didn't already know. What you might not know is what credibility really is in a business context beyondrepparttar 119938 dictionary definition – how people perceive credibility and how you can establish credibility more quickly and easily.

Ask a traditional marketer what'srepparttar 119939 best way to establish your credibility and he or she will tell you to list your biggest clients or describe one of your most impressive case studies. If you listen to yourself as you speak to new clients, you might hear yourself talking about your credentials as way to establish how smart you are.

It's true that your client list, successes and testimonials all play a role in credibility, but they missrepparttar 119940 mark if you hang your hat on them. Here's why. What is probably going on inrepparttar 119941 head ofrepparttar 119942 person you're talking to is this: "Wow, that sounds great and I have no doubt that you did an excellent job for them, but my situation is different…"

Cost of Entry

Guess what? Excellent credentials, a strong client list, impressive successes with other clients – they'rerepparttar 119943 cost of entry simply to be considered as a possible supplier or partner. They're expected. It would be more surprising to people if you don't have them rather thanrepparttar 119944 fact that you do.

It doesn't even do much to differentiate you from your competition. After all, your competitors are also talking about their excellent credentials, strong client list, impressive successes. Andrepparttar 119945 more talk aboutrepparttar 119946 same things,repparttar 119947 more you leave your new prospective client with a big 'so what?'

Besides, your prospect may have gotten your name from an existing client or they picked up some of your printed literature or went through your website. As a result, they've probably already checked your credentials and might even know some of your clients.

So what should you talk about to establish your credibility?

Nothing. Don't 'talk' about anything.

The absolute best thing you can do when you meet a new prospective client is to ask questions and then listen.

Remember,repparttar 119948 only thing that counts in your prospect's mind is how well you understand his or her situation. Andrepparttar 119949 only way you can demonstrate that is by asking questions – a lot of questions. Simple questions, pointed question, questions that rephrase whatrepparttar 119950 person has just told you, questions that allow you to test your hypotheses about challenges and obstaclesrepparttar 119951 person might be facing, leading questions, questions that hint at what you probably already know you'd recommend if your prospect were already a client.

The only thing that counts in your prospect's mind is how well you understand his or her situation.

In fact,repparttar 119952 mere act of asking questions forces your prospect along a line of reasoning that demonstrates you really do know what you're talking about. And when you follow up with suggestions and recommendations, you have allrepparttar 119953 credibility you need. Why? Because you asked allrepparttar 119954 right questions!

Three Faces of SPAM

Written by Sandi Moses


Three Faces of SPAM

Like everybody who will ever read this, I get spam in my e-mail. Mine seems to fall into one of three categories. The first isrepparttar Nigerian scam about helping some poor, pathetic soul collect megabucks, supposedly from someone who has died and left a fortune. I’m not sure what is worse: that there are people desperate enough to believe those messages, or that there are people despicable enough to prey onrepparttar 119934 desperate. The net result isrepparttar 119935 despicable conrepparttar 119936 desperate into sending money whichrepparttar 119937 desperate will never see again.

The second type comes from people who sound innocent enough. They have a product or a business or a service or something else that is perfectly legitimate. They surfrepparttar 119938 web, find one of my sites, findrepparttar 119939 “contact us” link, and send me information about whatever they have to offer. I suppose, in their minds, it isn’t any different than walking downrepparttar 119940 street or going throughrepparttar 119941 telephone book writing down addresses, and then sending out bulk business mail withrepparttar 119942 same offer. They could getrepparttar 119943 same information for more money and less time by buying a mailing list. THAT is perfectly legitimate. Harvesting e-mail addresses off of web sites is NOT. Spam is officially defined as “unsolicited commercial electronic mail.” The key word is “unsolicited.” If I didn’t ask for it and you send it anyway, it is unsolicited. When people harvest e-mail addresses off of web sites and then send commercial messages, that, by definition, is spam. I report them to my ISP and you should, too.

The third type isn’t so innocent. These people, likerepparttar 119944 second type of people already discussed, surfrepparttar 119945 web, find sites, and harvestrepparttar 119946 e-mail addresses fromrepparttar 119947 “contact us” link. Instead of starting out by sending you what they have to offer, they get devious, sneaky, and just plain under-handed. They send you a message asking for more information about whatever you have to offer on your site. When you graciously respond, it turns out they couldn’t care less about what you have to offer. The ONLY thing they want is to confirm your e-mail address so they can start to dump offers on you, hoping you will buy something from them. Nasty trick.

Let me give you an example from one that once came across my screen. It seemed to be from a nice lady with homey graphics

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