So, how can you succeed online without ever experiencing
feeling of failure?Is that possible?
Let’s find out...
What are you currently working on? What are you trying to accomplish with your online business right now? Do you have a goal that you’re trying to accomplish?
Let’s look at
two possibilities.
When you accomplish your goal, what has really happened?
You’ve set your goal and you’ve successfully accomplished it. You feel good about yourself. Your self-esteem is higher. You’re off to
next project.
The formula looks like this:
Set Goal + Accomplishment = Success
But!
When you fail to accomplish your goal, what has really happened?
You've set your goal, but you’ve failed to accomplish it. You don't feel good about yourself. You start to have negative thoughts about yourself. Your self-esteem is lower.
The formula looks like this:
Set Goal - Accomplishment = Failure
How can we fix this so you never experience
feeling of failure?
Let's explore
possibilities.
Even though you didn’t accomplish your goal, did you learn anything from it? What do you think was
biggest reason why you didn’t accomplish it? What was
problem that stopped you?
Whatever it was, it was something that you would have not learned otherwise. Don’t you agree?
Hence,
formula now becomes:
Set Goal - Accomplishment = Failure + Lesson Learned
Now that you've discovered
reason that caused you to fail, dig up some resources and gather some intelligence that would help you find
solution or solutions for
problem that stopped you from accomplishing your goal.
Armed with this solution or solutions for
problem, you now enjoy a double chance of accomplishing your goal.
Go at it again and DO NOT REPEAT
same mistake.
Let’s just say that you have failed to accomplish your goal again.
What do you think was
biggest reason why you didn’t accomplish it again? What did you learn from this second failure? Was it another problem that stopped you?
Whatever it was, it was something that you would have not learned otherwise.
The formula now looks like this:
Set Goal - Accomplishment = Failure + 2 Lessons Learned
Again, look for more resources and gather more intelligence that would help you find
solution or solutions for this new problem that stopped you from accomplishing your goal. And then go at it again but DO NOT REPEAT
previous two mistakes.
Let’s just say that you have failed for
3rd time.
The formula looks like this: