Conquering Goals: The Battle Plan

Written by Anthony Mullins


“To accomplish great things we must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe.”(Anatole France) While these three items define success, without all of them success would be unattainable. Without a dream, you will be without desire and without desire, you will be without action. If you can unlockrepparttar dream, then you can unlock success and make your dream reality.

Take a look back across your life and atrepparttar 129008 difficult things that you have already accomplished. For some, finishing high school seemed impossible only to graduate from college. Others set out for a career and ended up owning their own business. No matter who you are, you have accomplished many things in your life. I venture to say that many of your accomplishments were at one time or another, a goal. Goals and dreams give hope andrepparttar 129009 ability to achieve things otherwise not realized. If you can instituterepparttar 129010 following keys into your daily routine, you can realize more goals and reach new heights of success. What arerepparttar 129011 keys and how do they work?

1. Identifyrepparttar 129012 Goal

In order to achieve, you must set and accomplish goals. Goals give purpose and make us feel good about ourselves.

Think aboutrepparttar 129013 horse pulling a cart withrepparttar 129014 carrot dangling out in front. What purpose doesrepparttar 129015 carrot serve? It’srepparttar 129016 dream andrepparttar 129017 desire. Whenrepparttar 129018 horse wakes up each morning, I doubt that he is very excited about pulling a cart all around town. But addrepparttar 129019 carrot and we have created purpose and motivation. All day longrepparttar 129020 carrot hangs out in front and all day longrepparttar 129021 horse chases it. People laugh atrepparttar 129022 horse because of its simplicity. But duringrepparttar 129023 first five minutes ofrepparttar 129024 dayrepparttar 129025 horse has identifiedrepparttar 129026 goal to getrepparttar 129027 carrot. Atrepparttar 129028 end ofrepparttar 129029 day,repparttar 129030 horse is rewarded for its perseverance. While we all might laugh at this little analogy, what would happen if we inserted this horse mentality into our daily lives?

I agree that it isn’t that simple; however, do not make it harder than it has to be. There is a simple system to creating and accomplishing goals. You cannot just wish your goals; you need to install structure in your life for establishing goals and achieving your desired success.

First, goal statements need to be specific. Simply setting a goal to lose weight isn’t enough; being specific will allow you to better definerepparttar 129031 goal and create a stronger plan for success. “I would like to lose 10 pounds by June 1st” is a much stronger goal. This givesrepparttar 129032 goal more credibility and createsrepparttar 129033 need for a specific plan.

Next, your goals need to be achievable. Achievable does not mean easy. Goals should require you to move outside your comfort zone. Goals are meant to help us accomplish things, but do not make them impossible. Sometimesrepparttar 129034 accomplishments might be small and other times they might be great. But, each one should require you to elevate yourself in order to see through torepparttar 129035 accomplishment. This stretching will make you stronger and build your confidence to achieve greater goals. When I think of this process, I visualize athletes pushing themselves and their bodies beyond where they have ever been. Why? In order to build larger and stronger muscles,repparttar 129036 weight must be gradually increased. This weight increase in turn developsrepparttar 129037 muscles and new, higher levels of strength. Withoutrepparttar 129038 increase of weight,repparttar 129039 muscles will not get stronger. I believerepparttar 129040 same principle holds true inrepparttar 129041 setting and accomplishment of goals. Goals need to require more effort thanrepparttar 129042 last, thus making you stronger.

Third, establish a deadline or date for accomplishment of your goal. The date can be just aroundrepparttar 129043 corner or somewhere inrepparttar 129044 distant future; setting any date isrepparttar 129045 important part. A date will allow you to keep your eyes looking forward and not looking back. The goal lies inrepparttar 129046 future; now let’s get after it!

Finally, make a list of your goals. Create a “Goal Contract” with yourself. Write down your goals, include all ofrepparttar 129047 specifics and sign it. This further solidifies your commitment torepparttar 129048 goal(s). Now, find a moment each day to review your goals. Make them part of your daily routine.

2. Create a Battle Plan for Success

I like to userepparttar 129049 words “battle plan”, because accomplishing goals is not easy. Around every turn there will be obstacles. You will quickly recognize some obstacles and others will appear without warning, like an ambush. You may have control overrepparttar 129050 outcome or you may be reliant upon another for help. Either way, it is going to be a constant challenge for you to keep moving forward, even throughrepparttar 129051 setbacks. The key to overcoming setbacks is to learn from what has happened and then alter or strengthen your battle plan. Mel Gibson said regarding his making ofrepparttar 129052 Academy Award winning epic, Braveheart, "You have to go in with a plan. You can deviate from it, though -- it's just a jumping off point."

As you are formulating your plan, ask yourself these questions: “What tools do I need to accomplish my goal(s)? What resources do I have at my disposal? How long do I have to accomplish my goal? Whose help might I need to realize success in my goal?” Answering these questions will help you think through what is needed to ensure success.

Another critical factor in your plan is other people. George Washington said it this way, “Be courteous to all, but intimate with few; and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.” If you need support from others, be certain that they support and are in alliance with your goals. Surround yourself with strong supporters and let them become your battle warriors. Rely upon them to help and encourage you. It is unimaginable that you could achieve any goal without a few obstacles. Because of this possibility, you need to surround yourself with positive thinkers. The introduction of negative ideas or feelings into a situation can sabotage your plan. Cheer yourself on every day and surround yourself with others who dorepparttar 129053 same. Be your biggest fan. Support and motivate yourself with a positive attitude, even when you stumble. In John Maxwell’s book, “Think on These Things”, he offered a quote that resonates this type of positive thinking: “I am never down. I am either up or getting up!” What a positive image.

Look Where You Want to Go

Written by Paula Gregorowicz


When I first started inrepparttar sport of cycling about 9 years ago, I was very nervous about hitting things I didn’t want to – trees, holes, rocks, drainage grates, or pillars depending on whether I was riding onrepparttar 129006 road or on a trail. The thing I noticed was that if I focused onrepparttar 129007 obstacle by looking down at it, more often than not I hit it. Of course, this convinced me even more that I needed to be ultra safe or I’d be doomed (much likerepparttar 129008 mother in A Christmas Story who is convinced Ralphie will “shoot his eye out” if he getsrepparttar 129009 BB Gun), I continued to concentrate even harder onrepparttar 129010 obstacle. You can guess what happened. I hit more rocks, holes, and tree roots while narrowly avoidingrepparttar 129011 really painful obstacles like poles, trees, and cars (thank goodness). It didn’t take me long to figure out both by trial and error and by reading bicycling magazines that you need to look where you want to go, not where you don’t want to go. Alas,repparttar 129012 moment I started looking ahead ofrepparttar 129013 obstacle and envisioning a clear, clean line to ride pastrepparttar 129014 obstacle, miraculously I breezed by without incident. As I got more experienced I not only could do this consistently, I could do it effortlessly without a death grip and body tension fueled by fear.

While you may not want to ever put your behind on a saddle and pedal along on two wheels, you probably do want to move through your life in a manner that makes it easier to move pastrepparttar 129015 inevitable obstacles alongrepparttar 129016 way. And, when you find yourself in an unwanted situation where you’re temporarily in a bowl of pits instead of a bowl full of cherries, you can use this skill to keeprepparttar 129017 faith and move up and out ofrepparttar 129018 hole.

As you can see fromrepparttar 129019 bicycling example, your energy flows torepparttar 129020 very thing on which you are focused. As a result, you get more of that particular thing; inrepparttar 129021 case of ridingrepparttar 129022 bike, you get impact with a physical obstacle and an unpleasant ride. Conversely, if you look where you want to go and focus your energies there, you give more power torepparttar 129023 very thing you desire resulting in a more effortless and enjoyable ride.

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