Clutter Is Natural

Written by Stephanie Roberts


Nature loves clutter. Just think of allrepparttar stuff that drops from trees, washes in onrepparttar 111425 tide, or is blown byrepparttar 111426 wind into your backyard. Birds molt, animals shed, snakes slither out of their skin, and they all just leave it lying there to rot intorepparttar 111427 earth. Follow any two-year-old around for a day and you'll see that we're not much better.

Living in clutter does not mean that you are a slob or an undisciplined failure. It means that you are human, and your origins are showing. Way, way back inrepparttar 111428 farthest branches of your family tree, your ancient ancestors lived a somewhat more hand-to-mouth existence than we do. Stocking up was a smart thing to do whenrepparttar 111429 antelope might not roam your way again for a while, and surviving a cold winter depended on how big a stash of firewood and dried berries you had inrepparttar 111430 back ofrepparttar 111431 cave.

The urge to acquire is instinctive and completely normal. But repparttar 111432 kinds of circumstances that could lead primitive man to use uprepparttar 111433 provisions he'd stashed away are no longer much of a threat to us. I am a big fan of Costco, eBay, and 24-hour convenience stores, but we don't really need them, andrepparttar 111434 effect on our closets and garages (not to mention our waistlines!) has been catastrophic.

There seems to be an agreement in our culture that life was "simpler" back whenever. Yearning for simplicity makes us believe that our clutter is againstrepparttar 111435 way things should be. What was different inrepparttar 111436 past was they didn't have credit cards, mail order catalogs, andrepparttar 111437 Internet. Most people only bought what they needed and could afford. When wasrepparttar 111438 last time any of us did that?

Inrepparttar 111439 span of just a few generationsrepparttar 111440 cost of goods has gone down dramatically due to mass production. Take a moment to think about how much a basic T-shirt would cost if it were knitted and stitched by hand. How many would you own then? What if you had to make it yourself? Would you be so ready to think you need another one in a slightly different color or cut, or maybe with a little Lycra in it?

A common lament about contemporary social norms bemoansrepparttar 111441 scattering ofrepparttar 111442 nuclear family,repparttar 111443 lack of a sense of community, andrepparttar 111444 loss of spirituality in daily life. We feel disconnected, stressed, empty, and we have been trained by mass media since early childhood that having more things will make us feel better. At some point someone told us "you can't buy happiness," but we didn't listen, because everyone likes new toys and buying things makes us feel secure, which is almost as good as feeling happy.

So we shop and shop and buy more things for our homes (and our cars, and our cell phones) until we're drowning in stuff. And then we shop for things to help us managerepparttar 111445 other things and get them organized and neatly stored. Usually all that results from this is an over-abundance of misused, unused, or wrong-sized containers that metastasize into their own variety of clutter.

Combine a new "pre-approved" credit card offer inrepparttar 111446 mailbox every week, buy-in-bulk warehouse stores, easy internet shopping, and cable shopping networks beaming bargains into your television set 24 hours a day withrepparttar 111447 hard-wired delusion that giving in to these temptations is a good idea, and our once life-preserving impulse to stock up goes into overdrive. The problem isn't that we are completely lacking in judgment or self-discipline. The problem is thatrepparttar 111448 primal parts of our brains, whererepparttar 111449 compulsion to stock up while it's available resides, is not programmed for a world in which more than we could ever possibly need will still be there tomorrow. Andrepparttar 111450 next day. Andrepparttar 111451 day after that.

Surprising New Info about Children, Allergies and Pets

Written by Susan Dunn, MA Clinical Psychology


Have you wondered whether to get your child a pet or not? Does your family have a history of allergies and have you been told by your pediatrician it’s not a good idea?

There’s interesting news fromrepparttar Medical College of George (MCG), evidence from a new study about children and pets published inrepparttar 111424 Journal ofrepparttar 111425 American Medical Associatio that having pets may actually help with allergies.

Dr. Dennis R. Ownby, chief of MCG’s Section of Allergy and immunology has followed 474 babies from birth to age 7 and has found that children exposed to two or more in-door pets were half as likely to develop common allergies.

“Allergists have been trained for generations that dogs and cats inrepparttar 111426 house are bad because they increaserepparttar 111427 risk of you becoming allergic to the; we know that before you become allergic to something, you have to be repeatedly exposed to it.”

He and his staff were just as surprised atrepparttar 111428 results of their study as you may be reading it! “The data didn’t lookrepparttar 111429 way it was supposed to; as a matter of fact, it was very stronglyrepparttar 111430 opposite of what we expected to find,” said Ownby.

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