Nature loves clutter. Just think of all
stuff that drops from trees, washes in on
tide, or is blown by
wind into your backyard. Birds molt, animals shed, snakes slither out of their skin, and they all just leave it lying there to rot into
earth. Follow any two-year-old around for a day and you'll see that we're not much better. Living in clutter does not mean that you are a slob or an undisciplined failure. It means that you are human, and your origins are showing. Way, way back in
farthest branches of your family tree, your ancient ancestors lived a somewhat more hand-to-mouth existence than we do. Stocking up was a smart thing to do when
antelope might not roam your way again for a while, and surviving a cold winter depended on how big a stash of firewood and dried berries you had in
back of
cave.
The urge to acquire is instinctive and completely normal. But
kinds of circumstances that could lead primitive man to use up
provisions he'd stashed away are no longer much of a threat to us. I am a big fan of Costco, eBay, and 24-hour convenience stores, but we don't really need them, and
effect on our closets and garages (not to mention our waistlines!) has been catastrophic.
There seems to be an agreement in our culture that life was "simpler" back whenever. Yearning for simplicity makes us believe that our clutter is against
way things should be. What was different in
past was they didn't have credit cards, mail order catalogs, and
Internet. Most people only bought what they needed and could afford. When was
last time any of us did that?
In
span of just a few generations
cost of goods has gone down dramatically due to mass production. Take a moment to think about how much a basic T-shirt would cost if it were knitted and stitched by hand. How many would you own then? What if you had to make it yourself? Would you be so ready to think you need another one in a slightly different color or cut, or maybe with a little Lycra in it?
A common lament about contemporary social norms bemoans
scattering of
nuclear family,
lack of a sense of community, and
loss of spirituality in daily life. We feel disconnected, stressed, empty, and we have been trained by mass media since early childhood that having more things will make us feel better. At some point someone told us "you can't buy happiness," but we didn't listen, because everyone likes new toys and buying things makes us feel secure, which is almost as good as feeling happy.
So we shop and shop and buy more things for our homes (and our cars, and our cell phones) until we're drowning in stuff. And then we shop for things to help us manage
other things and get them organized and neatly stored. Usually all that results from this is an over-abundance of misused, unused, or wrong-sized containers that metastasize into their own variety of clutter.
Combine a new "pre-approved" credit card offer in
mailbox every week, buy-in-bulk warehouse stores, easy internet shopping, and cable shopping networks beaming bargains into your television set 24 hours a day with
hard-wired delusion that giving in to these temptations is a good idea, and our once life-preserving impulse to stock up goes into overdrive. The problem isn't that we are completely lacking in judgment or self-discipline. The problem is that
primal parts of our brains, where
compulsion to stock up while it's available resides, is not programmed for a world in which more than we could ever possibly need will still be there tomorrow. And
next day. And
day after that.