"Chemistry"do we need it to FALL in Love?

Written by Jill Rhodes-Harvey

CHEMISTRY what is it,and do we really need it?

CHEMISTRY-Justrepparttar mention of this term conjures up powerful feelings and images for anyone who has ever been in or seeking a love relationship. It is often described as a feeling that leaves you breathless, excited and weak inrepparttar 124181 knees. Palms sweat,repparttar 124182 heart races andrepparttar 124183 body tingles with nervous anticipation,Wow!

It is believed by virtually everyone that true love cannot exist without chemistry. Therefore,repparttar 124184 conclusion most would-be lovers come to is that if they experience these intense feelings towards someone, they haverepparttar 124185 basis for an ideal and lasting relationship.

Right? well it definitley helps to assistrepparttar 124186 bonding process, but, for this definition of chemistry it is only limited to one's physical response to another person. It lacks an entire dimension that resides in our values, beliefs, personalities,social and family background and worldview.

In order to know you haverepparttar 124187 right connection with a potential (or existing) partner, it's important to have a basic knowledge of what real chemistry consists of, instead of embracing onlyrepparttar 124188 myths that surround it. This can be difficult to do. This intense, physical passion isrepparttar 124189 stuff that Oscar winning movies and best-selling books are made of. So, although as intoxicating as sipping champagne...take a step back for a minute and see if you recognize yourself inrepparttar 124190 following.

Sex is great. You have such strong physical chemistry, it's almost like an addiction. You long to see your love interest as frequently as possible, when you are apart your mind is full of them, how they smell,repparttar 124191 feel of their skin, how you feel when you make love.... and a deep longing to be with them as much as you can. It is literally like being intoxicated, in fact you are, with PEA!

These vignettes are great examples of how physical chemistry can be mistaken forrepparttar 124192 real thing. The attraction on one level is so strong, you believe thatrepparttar 124193 relationship hasrepparttar 124194 right elements to grow into a happy and satisfying partnership, all that you are feeling are physical symptoms - What you need for this to grow is a common ground of values, beliefs and goals. Once you have established all these elements then you haverepparttar 124195 ultimate foundation in which to build your relationship upon.

Physical attraction (or lust) generally begins during our first contact with someone, although on occasions it can grow, how often have you heard two people meet, they didn't like each other, then at a later date they meet again and find themselves falling for each other.

Chemistry - can it DEVELOP over time ? YES, but you do need some pull fromrepparttar 124196 very beginning. Chemistry is about our sub-conscious blue print we have formed over many years stemming from childhood. Our first emotional bonding experiences with our opposite sex parent will remain imprinted on our minds, to our surroundings andrepparttar 124197 relationships formed throughout our lives, hence some people are attracted to particular types of partners, this will almost certainly be down to a long history of forming strong bonds with those kind of people.

"The Newbie's Mind Set To Making It Online"

Written by Karl Augustine

Since approximately 90% of all online businesses fail, what type of mind set doesrepparttar newbie need to "make it"?

It depends on whatrepparttar 124180 levelrepparttar 124181 newbie is and whatrepparttar 124182 newbie wants fromrepparttar 124183 online business...one thing is certain, no matterrepparttar 124184 level or goal ofrepparttar 124185 newbie, their mind set can either make or break them.

Beforerepparttar 124186 newbie learns about FTP uploads, file saving, HTML editors, niche finding, advertising, list building, search engines, affiliate marketing, joint ventures, etc., he/she should takerepparttar 124187 time to getrepparttar 124188 right mind set before doing much else.

Why? Because starting and operating a successful online business from scratch is a journey that never ends unlessrepparttar 124189 netrepreneur wants it to.

Newbies of all levels must remember thatrepparttar 124190 online journey is exciting and arduous atrepparttar 124191 same time. The newbie's excitement level can spawn long productive learning/work sessions or result in lost time and money...both come withrepparttar 124192 territory.

Newbies who are computer literate, web literate, don't believe in overnight successes, and have a tremendous drive to make it work forrepparttar 124193 long haul still have challenges alongrepparttar 124194 way.

One ofrepparttar 124195 most interesting but amazing challenges is denying frustration. Frustration can be a result of a great many things...one ofrepparttar 124196 most frequent reasons newbies get frustrated is they don't believe running an online business isn't easy. Believing there won't be lots of work involved or that a newbie can do whatrepparttar 124197 experts do can makerepparttar 124198 newbie throw their hands inrepparttar 124199 air when they get partially along their journey.

Like frustration,repparttar 124200 challenge of not knowing who to believe or where to turn can makerepparttar 124201 newbie feel unsure of him/herself. The seemingly endless products and services and tales of greatness can makerepparttar 124202 newbie seem lost with no clear direction of what to do next.

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