If you are worrying about your money problems it's time to STOP IT NOW! Easier said than done, huh. In my 25 to 30 years working with personal money management problems I have never seen worry help solve problem. In fact it has just opposite effect.
Worry clouds your judgment. You have certain actions that you need to take to get your problems solved and you will need a clear head to make necessary decisions.
In some cases worry leads to desperation and is used as an excuse not to face problem.
Let me say this in explicit terms "No one dies of starvation or goes to jail because they can't pay their bills in this country". I understand that there have been people starve to death in US but that was more than likely an extreme situation. Also, if there is anyone that goes to jail because of their debts you can bet there was fraud involved.
Even if you don't have any income at all there are places to turn. Worrying is not going to make things happen.
The best thing you can do to get started solving your money problems, after you stop worrying about it, is to access your situation. You have to look at it as if you are an outsider looking in.
Find out exactly what problem is. This is easier than you think. Here are a few of most common problems that are causing your worries:
Credit Card Debt Medical Bills Impulse Spending Mortgage Payment or Rent too high Absence of a Budget Unorganized Bills and Files Late Payments & Fees Overdraft Fees Not Prioritizing Spending
If you have your spending set up by category it won't take long to see where problem is. Here is an example:
Recommended Percentage of your take-home pay for Housing, Other Bills and Household Expenses should be around 30% each with remaining 10% going toward your long and short term savings. To find out more about these percentages and how to setup an easy to use budget visit: http://www.homemoneyhelp.com/BBOonline.html