There was once a church that decided to bring their absentee members back into
fold. The preacher went to see one member for that purpose. His visit took him so far out in country that you’d have to walk five miles back toward town just to start picking up firewood. When he finally located rundown house and property, he was greeted by a crusty, old graybeard. The coffee was good, however, and conversation easy.
Finally, preacher got to point of visit and heated up rebuke to point that man had a change of heart and returned to church. He then wanted to work.
He was given some church stationary and told to write to those on a list, in an effort to get them to return just as he’d done. After a few weeks church received a check and a note from one on list. He said that he was making up his contributions and that he would be in his rightful place following Sunday. He then added, “Please notify your church secretary that there is only one “l” in “filthy” and no “c” in “skunk.”
It’s a case where you admire a person’s enthusiasm, but question his wisdom. But, he did best he knew how.
What about rest of us? I have specific reference to how rude we can be, even when there is no need to be. When it’s as easy or easier to be polite.
All of this brings to mind something I’ve experienced since barberosophy.com was launched some time ago. Since that time I’ve gathered e-mail addresses of various contacts (as well as those who contacted me) and added them to a growing list to receive a weekly Barber-osophy column. Most seem to appreciate it. The few who don’t, however, never take nice approach. Instead of simply clicking on unsubscribe option they send rude messages.
