Do you have
skills to be a secret service agent?Do you have
necessary attributes to be a successful secret services agent? Do you melt into
background where no one can see you? Do you hide behind someone else? Would you describe yourself as having an incognito life? Are you capable of always putting yourself second? Do you constantly defer to another person? Do people see right through you and ignore you?
Then you have
skills.
You see, as John Reilly, states in
song he wrote for
musical Chicago; you are no more than Mr. Cellophane man.
Mister cellophane Should have been my name !!!! Mister cellophane 'cause you can look right through me Walk right by me And never know I'm there!
The question is:
Are these
skills you need to have an effective life? Are these
skills that bring you fulfillment and happiness? Are these
skills that show off your uniqueness and enable you to fulfill your role on this planet?
In our experience
answer is, no.
So how do you avoid being Mr. Cellophane man?
Simple.
Start by changing your focus of yourself. Rather than look at what is wrong with you and what needs changing. Sit quietly with yourself for a moment and look at your qualities.
Ask yourself:
•What are my strengths?
If you are not sure, or cannot put your finger on your strengths