Q: Dear Me, I recently took my teenage daughter shopping at mall. The experience raised two questions. (1) What business lessons might be learned from such a foray into teen commerce; and (2) What heck was I thinking? -- Sincerely, Me

A: Dear Me, great questions! Let me answer them in reverse order since second question is probably one causing you most concern.

What was I thinking? Only good Lord knows. I vaguely recall complaining that my fifteen-year-old daughter, who we'll call "Chelsea" (because that's her name), didn't spend enough time with her dear old dad anymore. It's a complaint that every dad of a teenage girl formerly known as "my baby" has made at one time or another. I also recall my insightful wife telling me that if I wanted to spend time with Chelsea now that she was a teenager I would have to do it in her element, which happens to be any large structure with word "Mall" on side. A fitting analogy would be that if you want to spend time with a moody tiger you have to go into jungle to do it.

No offense to my mall merchant brothers and sisters, but a trip into deepest jungle is more appealing to me than a trip to mall. I get no joy out of trudging from store to store, attempting to communicate with salespeople from other planets, browsing discount racks of last season's dollar merchandise and peering into windows at mannequins that seem to be in some sort of inanimate pain (why can't they make a happy mannequin?).

Bottom line: I'm a guy. It is programmed deep within my genetic code to hold such things in high disregard. But so strong is my love for my daughter that I pushed my true feelings aside and off we went to mall last Saturday morning. I called it, "Driving green mile…"

I was perfectly fine walking through Sears (a real man's store). I held my own when we cruised through Spencer's Gifts (I found Ozzy Osborne bobble-head doll to be quite life-like). But when we walked into one of those stores that specialize in clothing and accessories for younger generation my psyche all but shutdown. Within minutes I found myself standing at back of store holding my daughter's purse while she tried on small swatches of material that store was trying to pass off as clothing. It was there, standing among mopey mannequins and teeny-tiny underwear and designer nose rings, that I realized I was witnessing good old American commerce at work.

This leads us back to first question: are there business lessons to be learned from a trip to mall? As young folks would say, "Dude, definitely!"

The following observations can be applied to most businesses, not just to retailers that cater to Generation Why.

It's not always easy to find a cheap hotel that you know you would be comfortable staying in. Often, prices charged in large cities like London, Paris, New York, etc. don't really seem to equate with word 'cheap'.

That said, it is possible to find a cheap hotel. You just need to know where to look!

There are a number of budget hotel chains who offer a good standard of accommodation at an affordable price. These vary by country - you'll probably know ones in your own country but if you are travelling abroad, you may need to do some research.

The advantage of using a hotel room provided by one of these chains is that it will be fairly cheap and that you can rest assured that all standards you expect from a budget hotel room will be catered for.

The disadvantage can be that sometimes location is a bit 'out of way'. Some cheap hotel chains have branches at out of town locations. You may also miss out on personal service you would expect from a smaller, owner-run establishment.

The next alternative is to look for an individual hotel. Smaller hotels are often run by their owner and this can be a good way to dig out a cheap hotel.