Bully Zapper Techniques Two and Three: Report and Keep a List by Paula McCoachThe Second Basic Technique for Zapping Bullies - Report
Bullying to an Adult!
After you have told
bully to stop several times, you need to report
bullying to an adult. Don't continue to put up with
bullying hoping it will go away.
I tell students that they need to report
bully at several points - if
bullying continues with no improvement and if you experience
bullying getting worse.
Reporting
bullying to an adult is your second most important Bully Zapping Technique. If a student cannot stop
bullying, they need to care about themselves enough to let an adult help them. Adults have more authority to deal with
bully.
Students need to tell teachers, school counselors, administrators, assistants, etc. that other kids are bothering them!
The Third Most Basic Technique for Dealing with Bullies - Keep a List!
So
bully still has not stopped! Not to worry. At this point I tell
student to begin keeping a written list of what is said by
bully. Verbatim! I tell them to write down every word
bully is saying to them.
I provide a paper to some students with columns on it. The column headings are 'Name,' 'Date,' 'Comments.'
I tell
student to give me
list anytime they want. If they want to give it to me every day, I will talk to
bully daily until it stops. If they want to give it to me once a week, I will talk to
bully weekly - until
bullying stops.