Brothers in Arms

Written by William E. Paterson


Members ofrepparttar World War II generation are known for being more than a little reticent about sharing their experiences. They were reared in an era when doing one’s duty – national, family or otherwise – was simply expected. "Make no complaints; expect no accolades" wasrepparttar 111525 unspoken credo. While their reluctance to emote is not surprising, it has left a bit of a void in our understanding of their noble deeds, performed both onrepparttar 111526 battlefield and onrepparttar 111527 homefront.

Only in recent years have these stalwarts begun to receive their due appreciation. Whyrepparttar 111528 belated fanfare? One could argue thatrepparttar 111529 baby boomers finally recognized thatrepparttar 111530 subject of World War II could be, well, marketable. Tom Brokaw’s book, "The Greatest Generation," Steven Spielberg’s film, "Saving Private Ryan," and Tom Hanks’ HBO miniseries, "Band of Brothers" have given new perspective torepparttar 111531 most globally significant war on record.

Now, as members of Generation X and beyond get their first real taste of world conflict inrepparttar 111532 wake of September 11,repparttar 111533 efforts of those who literally savedrepparttar 111534 world more than fifty years ago are no longer irrelevant lessons in a tattered history book. At long last, we want to hear more of their stories. And, indeed, every member of this generation has one to tell.

Seven Lives for Seven Brothers Inrepparttar 111535 Italian-American community of Niagara Falls, New York, sending multiple sons into battle was a fact of life. But Vincenza DeBiase, a spirited mother of 11, went above and beyondrepparttar 111536 call of duty, watching as five of her seven sons were called to serve.

The Niagara Falls community persevered through life onrepparttar 111537 homefront with limited access to meat, shoes and gasoline – no easy task forrepparttar 111538 DeBiase family of thirteen. Vincenza and James DeBiase’s oldest son, Jim, was married and not eligible for duty. He did, however, serve his community as an air raid warden. And though their youngest son, Don, was not yet of age to serve, he diligently followed his brother each night to turn offrepparttar 111539 neon air raid sign. Meanwhile, Frances, Eleanor, Evelyn and Grace were like so many daughters and sisters ofrepparttar 111540 era, relied upon to stabilizerepparttar 111541 family, to help raise their younger siblings and even to put food onrepparttar 111542 table.

With each draft notice that arrived,repparttar 111543 pall overrepparttar 111544 DeBiase home darkened. Throughout World War II, Vincenza proudly flew a flag in her window displaying five stars, one for each son in uniform: John, Pat, Lou, Ben and Joe. Over a period of five years, she saw her sons wounded in every way that a person can be – from physical agony to indelible emotional scars. Nearly six decades later, even some members of their own family are about to share in their experiences forrepparttar 111545 first time.

Lieutenant John DeBiase – 1917-1985 Amongrepparttar 111546 first citizens drafted in 1940, John wasrepparttar 111547 rock ofrepparttar 111548 DeBiase family. He was first stationed inrepparttar 111549 Pacific onrepparttar 111550 offshore islands of Hawaii, and later trained in armored artillery at Fort Sill, Oklahoma. In 1944, John was sent to France withrepparttar 111551 3rd Army, where he served as a First Lieutenant under General Patton.

John, a gifted writer, frequently exchanged letters withrepparttar 111552 family back home. Each word he penned was carefully crafted to reassure his anxious parents and siblings that all was well. Fortunately, many of John’s letters have survived. One of his typically upbeat notes contains a telling afterthought: "…which reminds me, it’s a darn good thing I am here, what with all my younger brothers growing to six feet and more, I’ll need every bit of strength I can accumulate to handle them. I hope I get home before Donald grows up or I’ll have to take a back seat allrepparttar 111553 way around at home." The underlying message to his mother was, "Don’t worry, we’re all coming back."

John’s inner strength was genuine. Rumor has it that he once saw an officer standing upright in clear view, making himself an easy target. He yelled torepparttar 111554 man, "Get your ass down before you get it shot off!" That man was none other than General Patton.

But tragedy struck in 1944 when John fought inrepparttar 111555 Battle at Metz on German soil. A severe wound resulted inrepparttar 111556 amputation of half of his leg at Saarbrucken, in November of that year. In February 1945, he wrote several letters home that omitted details ofrepparttar 111557 pain and fear he endured in that bloody, life-altering moment on a muddy German battlefield. Instead, John’s letters spoke of wonderful hospital care, andrepparttar 111558 fact that he had, "everything I need and more." His accounts of moving around in his wheelchair contained notrepparttar 111559 slightest trace of bitterness or melancholy.

At that very moment, John’s younger brother, Joe, was MIA. John wrote home an uncharacteristically frank letter saying, "I’m hoping and praying he’s a prisoner, but I’m afraid he isn’t. I guess we have to face that it was almost bound to happen to one of us – only I hoped it would have spared Joe, Louie and Pat." He would have switched fates with his brother in an instant. Back home, a distraught Vincenza canceled Christmas.

John was discharged in December 1945, receiving bothrepparttar 111560 Silver Star andrepparttar 111561 Bronze Star. And, for leaving his leg on a French battlefield, he was awardedrepparttar 111562 Purple Heart.

Major Patrick DeBiase – 1919-present Blessed withrepparttar 111563 DeBiase head for business, Pat graduated from Niagara University in 1942. But in September of that year, he was sent torepparttar 111564 Quarter Master Depot in Indiana. It was there that he met his soul mate: Joyce Garrett.

In November 1943, Pat was transferred to Camp Lee, Virginia where he expected to stay. So he and Joyce made plans to be married in April 1944. But war conditions changed, and a new assignment was pending. Further complicating matters, Pat was a staunch Catholic, while Joyce had been raised a Southern Baptist. Atrepparttar 111565 time,repparttar 111566 Catholic Church would not perform such marriages in church – although couples could be married by a priest inrepparttar 111567 sacristy. Like many young couples, Pat and Joyce hoped to wed beforerepparttar 111568 uncertainties of war muddied their future. Luckily, they found a priest in Maryland who agreed to marry them, even though they were not members of his parish.

As ifrepparttar 111569 situation weren’t tenuous enough, Pat had no leave time and was due to report back to camp in three days. So, Joyce tookrepparttar 111570 train from Louisville to Richmond where they exchanged vows. The nation’s capital served as a brief honeymoon site, before Pat had to hurry back to Camp Lee. Two months later he received a wire signed by General Eisenhower to report to London by plane ASAP.

As an officer, Pat summoned all of his resources to locate his brothers during his many supply trips throughout Europe – a tough task givenrepparttar 111571 tight secrecy during that period. Eventually, Pat met up with Joe in northern England just before he landed on Omaha Beach. He found Lou in southern England before he left for France andrepparttar 111572 invasion of Marseilles. And he was able to catch up with John in Paris, just before he left for his ill-fated assignment in Metz, Germany.

Pat retired fromrepparttar 111573 Officer Reserve in 1946, and receivedrepparttar 111574 Bronze Star for his Service of Supply activities duringrepparttar 111575 Battle ofrepparttar 111576 Bulge.

Corporal Benjamin DeBiase 1921-1997 Ben was drafted intorepparttar 111577 Army Corp. of Engineers in 1942. His experience would prove to berepparttar 111578 least physically grueling of any member ofrepparttar 111579 DeBiase family – but no less challenging. Ben arrived at basic training prepared to endure a service commitment as intense as those of his friends and brothers. But during his training inrepparttar 111580 mountains of Tennessee, Ben came down with a case of frostbite severe enough to earn him a medical discharge. He was sent home to his family without ever leaving U.S. soil.

Budget Decorating Comparison: Real Life vs. TV

Written by Kathleen Wilson


Have you ever watched those tv decorating shows, you know,repparttar ones that promise to help you redecorate your home on a tight budget? Were you ever amazed to then find, by tight budget they mean $500, or even $1000? I have, and I don’t know about you, but their budget is WAY out of my budget! Now don’t get me wrong, these shows have great ideas, I watch them allrepparttar 111524 time for ideas myself. But I thought it might be fun to do a breakdown of a simulation of a typical show, and then show you The Budget Decorator’s way!

Typical Living room re-do on tv:

Paint$25 Fabric for Curtains$80 Accessories$100 Extra Furnishings$150 Rug$150

Grand Total$505

Typical Re-do for a Budget Decorator (Not unlike yourself!)

Paint$15 (Decent brand on sale) Fabric$12 (Sheets on sale, stamped or stenciled yourself, even extra for pillows!) Accessories$10 (A few dollar picture frames filled with garden catalog photos, ceramic pitcher fromrepparttar 111525 kitchen filled with flowers, books stacked, dollar store candles on homemade candleholders, plants from cuttings, you getrepparttar 111526 idea!)

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