Body Language – It’s What You Don’t Say

Written by Bill Willard


You’ll be judged fromrepparttar moment you walk into a room;repparttar 138912 way you stand, sit, and use your hands can send messages—intended or otherwise. Sometimes good, sometimes not so good—and sometimes contradicting your intended meaning.

Because body language is often subconscious, it's more spontaneous and less controlled, and shows our true feelings and attitudes. "Our nonverbal messages often contradict what we say in words," says Jo-Ann Vega, president of JV Career and Human Resources Consulting Services in Nyack, N.Y., "When we send mixed messages or our verbal messages don't jibe with our body statements, our credibility can crumble."

People tend to believerepparttar 138913 non-verbal.

Body language works both ways, of course. So learn to readrepparttar 138914 signals prospects and clients are sending during interviews. Here’s rundown of common types of body language and nonverbal communication, and what they can mean. I say “can” mean because there are not always hidden meanings behind every gesture. If a client rubs her forehead while you're speaking, for example, she may just have an itch.

Body Language Tips You Can Put torepparttar 138915 Test

Here’s a rundown of some nonverbal cues that can maintain your credibility and professionalism--and just might save your day!

Make a Confident Entrance – Get down to businessrepparttar 138916 minute you walk into a prospect’s home or business. Don’t rummage through your briefcase or pour over papers if you have to wait a few minutes (read a magazine, instead). Shakerepparttar 138917 person’s hand firmly (that goes for bothrepparttar 138918 popular genders), and take charge of yourself by choosingrepparttar 138919 most appropriate-seeming chair and being seated without waiting to be asked.

Watch Your Distance -- Prospects and clients may be uncomfortable when their personal space is invaded. Outgoing types like keeping a 20-to-50-inch zone around their bodies, while introverts prefer more space. Until you know otherwise, give people plenty of room, but lean in to make key points or display self-confidence.

Maintain Eye Contact – Secure people with high self-esteem match their facial expressions to their message, rather than always wearingrepparttar 138920 same one. Smile and maintain eye contact to project openness, sincerity and honesty (without staring, which can be intimidating); looking down and sketchy eye contact implies lack of confidence.

Pay Attention to How You Speak – Slipping over torepparttar 138921 verbal, use a natural tone and stick to your normal speaking volume, rate and rhythms. Secure SBOs and professionals have relaxed, well-modulated voices that let them express enthusiasm and interest. Speak in simple, straightforward sentences, avoid clearing your throat, using "ah" and "um" or other vocal ticks that are signs of nervousness or being over-rehearsed.

Mind Your Posture and Gestures – You want to come across as confident, relaxed, positive and well-balanced. Stand up straight, but walk freely, swinging your arms and taking determined strides. Careful attention to what is being said is often indicated by peering out over eyeglasses; cupping chin between thumb and fingers; putting hands to bridge of nose, or stroking chin. Fidgety mannerisms meanrepparttar 138922 person isn't paying attention. Avoid appearing rigid or tense, and be aware ofrepparttar 138923 other signals you’re sending…

10 Viral Internet Marketing Strategies That Produce A Massive Surge of Web Site Traffic and Sales

Written by Darryl DeLong


1. Start a newsletter that people can subscribe to, and use an autoresponder service like GetResponse (www.getresponse.com) or Aweber (www.aweber.com) to capture and store your subscribers’ contact information.

2. Userepparttar double-opt rather than single opt-in method to capture qualified targeted leads. Why? Because double opt-in requires new subscribers to confirm their subscription (yes, I want what you have to offer) and reducesrepparttar 138911 chances of a bounced email.

3. Refer people to your web page that offers them a freebie (free report, ebook, etc.), capture their name, email address & phone number (optional) and then take them to your home page while behindrepparttar 138912 scenes your autoresponder provides a series of follow-up emails to them automatically, re-introducing yourself and your business offer. Studies show that most people need to see your offer at least 7 times before they make a decision to purchase.

4. Include a headline & outlinerepparttar 138913 features/benefits ofrepparttar 138914 product or service you are offering on your web site. Make it easy for your audience to understand what they will gain by buying from you.

5. Include written testimonials from people who have used your product or service on your web site. Include audio testimonials that prospects can listen to and you will really capture their attention.

6. Let your "personality" come across in your newsletters. Allow your subscribers to know who you are and what you are about. Keep it real and be honest with them. By establishing trust and credibility with your prospects, you will greatly increaserepparttar 138915 return on your investment in time and money.

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