When a couple marries, it is sometimes referred to as 'becoming one'. It has been said
problem is deciding which one. Which should it be? I submit to you, neither one. "Can two walk together, except they be agreed?" Amos 3:3. If either wants to be king of
hill, then they walk alone; with a mate by their side, in name only.
"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour," Ec. 4:9.
My mate is left handed, utilizing
opposite side of his brain by comparison to
side most males use, and God gave me analytical abilities. Yet, when God created either of us, He did not make a mistake. There are times when I make wiser business decisions. Though, he is quick to spot a con-artist.
"For if they fall,
one will lift up his fellow:
but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up," Ec. 4:10.
Our strengths uphold each other.
"Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?" Ec. 4:11.
When we make Jesus our head, Jesus will stand with us. When both we and our mate make Jesus
head, our stand is even greater.
"And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him;
and a threefold cord is not quickly broken." Ec. 4:9-12.
"Wherefore if thy hand or thy foot offend thee, cut them off, and cast them from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life halt or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet to be cast into everlasting fire. And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire." Mt. 18:8-9.