Be Self-centric - Work Harder on Yourself than on Anything Else!

Written by A.M.Sall


You look at this magnificent car and you say to yourself: "This is too expensive!" This is a huge mistake,repparttar most self-defeating mistake you could ever make.

Instead of saying: "This is too expensive", say :" I can't afford it, at least forrepparttar 129039 time being"

And work toward being able to afford it, that is, change yourself, put yourself in a position where you can afford it, or any thing you want, for that matter. A position where you will no longer find it "expensive".

Your reasoning should always be: " What can I do about it?" (so that I'll no longer "find" it expensive.) You see, things just "happen" inrepparttar 129040 same way, to everyone.

The only important thing is how you "perceive" them and what you do about them.

For example, if you had $ 1 billion you probably would not find this very same car "expensive".

Once you realize that reality depends on perception, all you have to do is change your perception, i.e.repparttar 129041 way you "see" things.

Realize that you actually arerepparttar 129042 center and creator of your reality.

Ultimately, we are all "self-made", but often, we don't even know it!

The way you seerepparttar 129043 world depends on a "program" that was installed in your brain by education, culture, environment, in general.

The vast majority of us just follow this initial programming, and stumble through life like pre-programmed robots.

But when we reach awareness, we can reprogram ourselves and enjoyrepparttar 129044 whole process, too!.

7 Essential Body Language Tips

Written by Pete Grand


The secrets of our body language have been around forever yet people constantly fail to recognizerepparttar importance of using body language to their advantage. Did you know that people only pay attention to 7% of what we say? Where doesrepparttar 129038 rest of their attention go? You guessed it right: our body language. Now let me give my 7 BLT's so that you can use your body language much more efficiently when interacting with people.

1- Always look at someone directly in their eyes when they are speaking to you. This may seem difficult at first but it’s definitelyrepparttar 129039 #1 body language ingredient to make you successful when interacting with others. Note: Do not ever stare at someone.

2- Always stand up straight. You never want to slouch. Not only does this make you appear shorter but it projects an image of someone who has low self-esteem.

3- Smile. Smiling is your most powerful body language signal. Though it is not recommended to smile constantly (people will be underrepparttar 129040 impression you are searching for approval), you should still make an effort to appear happy and optimistic.

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