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An Awesome Dad in by no means perfect. But that itself is perfect, because imperfection allows us to really understand personal evolution our children are going through with us. The definition of an Awesome Dad, then, is father who stays in game, shows up fully and sets powerful intentions to grow into. Here are some:

I listen with my entire being - and without judgment. I seek first to understand and appreciate what my children say. From that vantage point, I will build their trust in me and be most supportive.

I see others as equals, neither superior nor inferior to me. Every person is a unique individual, just like everyone else on planet. (hee hee)! We each have our own journey and everyone we encounter is integral to our life's objectives. Children are no less important and should be treated with equal respect.

I engage my curiosity completely. I truly want to understand and try to grasp all that is going on for my children. I want to see world afresh from their perspectives and glean new insights through them. I ask questions without an agenda.

Hot Mulled Wine

Ingredients:

• 1 bottle red wine
• 12 whole cloves
• 2 cinnamon sticks
• Rind of 1 lemon
• Rind of 1 orange
• 2 tablespoons sugar

Add all ingredients to a pot and steep gently over a medium heat until hot. Avoid boiling mixture. Serve in sturdy mugs.

NOTE: This is good to make in a crock pot, too. Makes house smell nice, also.

Kahlua Nog

• 1 cup Kahlua
• 1 pint dark rum
• 1 quart egg nog
• 1 pint chocolate ice cream
• 1 pint coffee-flavored ice cream

Peppermint Hot Chocolate

• 1 1/2 cups heavy cream
• 1 1/2 cups milk
• 1/4 cup sugar
• 6 ounces bittersweet chocolate, chopped
• 3 drops peppermint oil
• Sweetened whipped cream for garnish
• Candy Canes