Avoid This Tendency And You'll Press Beyond Your Limits!

Written by Richard Vegas


Inside of every one of us isrepparttar desire to press beyond our own limitations. Just forty years ago,repparttar 123486 goal to land onrepparttar 123487 moon was a huge step for mankind. Now, we've gone beyondrepparttar 123488 moon andrepparttar 123489 end is nowhere in sight. But, consider this: Every challenge we face, can be stopped dead in its tracks with one little undesirable tendency. Hmm…

As Dead As Dead Can Be!

Many people allow themselves to be de-railed by their opportunities. They look at their short comings and limitations and say, "I'm too young", "I'm too old", "I'm too uneducated", "I don't have enough money", I'm too much of this", and "I'm too little of that". Blah, Blah.

Let me give you a perfect example of what I'm talking about. You rememberrepparttar 123490 story of Abraham inrepparttar 123491 Bible? He was told he would becomerepparttar 123492 father of many nations. But, when he was told that, he was already seventy five years old.

Now, looking at this inrepparttar 123493 natural way of thinking, you tell me how a seventy five year old man could berepparttar 123494 father of anything, especially a nation. And naturally thinking; how was that grandma, he was married to, going to give birth to a nation?

He Never Was The Sharpest Tool In The Shed!

And,repparttar 123495 Bible says she was barren. Well, here is this old man and he thinks he'srepparttar 123496 father of many nations. He even went around telling everyone he met, "I'mrepparttar 123497 father of many nations". You can imagine how people must have looked at him.

They probably thought all of that old man's wealth has made him crazy. Well, Abraham's got a problem or opportunity if you will. He knows what his limitations are. He knows his body is beyondrepparttar 123498 time of fathering a child, and he knows his wife is barren.

But, Abraham didn't think ofrepparttar 123499 condition of his body or his wife's barren condition. In other words, he avoidedrepparttar 123500 tendency to make "excuses" for his limitations. Now get this: Abraham did have a child and, by his barren wife.

That Takes The Cake!

But, he was one hundred years old beforerepparttar 123501 child was born. And, this isrepparttar 123502 part I'm amazed with; He waited twenty five years and kept believing that he wasrepparttar 123503 father of many nations. I sometimes think I've gonerepparttar 123504 limit when I've waited twenty five minutes. But,repparttar 123505 point is; he didn't make excuses for his limitations.

He couldn't afford to. Abraham was no different than we are. If he had considered his wife and his own body, there is no way that old man could have kept saying "I'mrepparttar 123506 father of many nations" for twenty five years! He would have been just like some of us and quit after three days.

Abraham could have said, "I'm too old", "my wife is too old", . You see, his wife was ninety years old whenrepparttar 123507 child was born! Don't you know she was surprised? When she went into labor she probably thought she had appendicitis. Nah, I'm kidding.

Now I know that this is an extreme example, but, stillrepparttar 123508 same, excuses are part of our natural tendencies no matter how extreme they are.

The Conventional Wisdom!

The more challengingrepparttar 123509 situation,repparttar 123510 morerepparttar 123511 excuses seem to have an insatiable desire to rear their ugly head. Check up on yourself sometime. What isrepparttar 123512 first knee-jerk reaction that you find coming out of you when you first face some challenge that has to be handled. Now, you may have trained yourself to avoid excuses, and I commend you for that.

The Dignity of Labor

Written by Susan Dunn, MA


I love artists, because I’m a wordsmith and they say things I can never say. Here are two of my favorite paintings about work, both by Caillebotte: http://www.webstrategies.cc/caillebotte1.jpg ; http://www.webstrategies.cc/caillebotte2.jpg .

My mother was full of aphorisms. I grew up with “All work has dignity,” and “It doesn’t matter what you do. If you’re a [floor scraper], berepparttar best one you can be.”

Coming from an intellectual family, I was always fascinated to see people work with their hands. It took such patience. They didrepparttar 123485 same thing over and over. I wondered what held their interest.

When I watched, I often saw and felt love. I watchedrepparttar 123486 carpenter pause for a moment, strokingrepparttar 123487 wood as if it were a living thing. Turning it over in his hands, caressing it.

I heardrepparttar 123488 repairman coaxingrepparttar 123489 plumbing -- “Come on baby, come on baby,” he would say torepparttar 123490 corroded screw, with pliers in his hands.

I never heard my father, a corporate attorney, talking to his brief that way, orrepparttar 123491 father of my children, a pathologist, beggingrepparttar 123492 pap smear to reveal its secrets. Though George Washington Carver claims that's how he got his secrets fromrepparttar 123493 peanut – by talking to them.

I watchedrepparttar 123494 woman who cleaned our house. Her favorite thing was to polishrepparttar 123495 silver. We took it for granted, but she sawrepparttar 123496 silver pitchers and tableware forrepparttar 123497 beautiful objects they were. She would dip intorepparttar 123498 silver polish and make swirls onrepparttar 123499 coffee pot, taking her time, admiringrepparttar 123500 object and admiring her work.

When it was done to her satisfaction, she would hold it out to me. “Ain’t dat purdy?” she would say.

The Cathedral of Notre Dame was done by such artisans (not craftsmen).

The object ofrepparttar 123501 work was not to throw up a pew as fast as you could; everything that could be embellished was embellished.

Each artisan was creating his own glory to God that would be part ofrepparttar 123502 greater whole. They were not chipping stained glass, they were building a cathedral. They also did not sign their work.

In my days as a fundraiser, I often heardrepparttar 123503 Archbishop of San Antonio speak. He had a favorite story for those of us who servedrepparttar 123504 homeless.

He told about a homeless person who came torepparttar 123505 back ofrepparttar 123506 chancery one day for food.

The Archbishop was busy writing and annoyed to be interrupted from his important work. He stormed intorepparttar 123507 kitchen, he said, threw some bread onrepparttar 123508 table, slapped some turkey on it, slammed down a mustard jar and said, "HERE! Here's your food."

The man who had asked for food picked it up, andthen put it down. "I can't eat,” he said. “I can't swallow this. You were so angry when you made this. It wasn't made with love."

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