First, I'll need to explain what Law of Attraction is and how it works. You see, Law of Attraction states that you'll attract to your life whatever you give your attention, energy and focus to, whether wanted or unwanted--emphasis on unwanted. The "vibes" that you put out (also called vibrations) are either negative vibes or positive vibes, and at every moment, Law of Attraction is responding to vibes you are offering by giving you more of same, whether wanted or unwanted.

If you are curious about what it is that you are offering vibrationally in any area of your life, you simply need to take a look at that area and see what you're getting… it's a perfect match. Mentally take a brief inventory of different relationships that you have in your life. For some people, there is a mixture of kinds of people they have in their lives; some who support and uplift them, and others who are negative. So why do you attract negative people?

Recently I was asked this question: "I know how I WANT to feel--much different than I do now. How can I vibrate my ideal feeling when my current feelings are very low?" This student was realizing that when distance between your ideal feeling and your current feeling is too great, it doesn't feel very good.

Immediately a picture began to take shape in my mind and I asked this student to imagine a 'time-line' which looks like 'bar-bells'--with her default feeling on left and her ideal feeling on right. Then I asked her to place a minus sign under default feeling and thre plus signs under ideal feeling.

I drew something like this: