Government and State officials as well as unemployed enjoy erotic pleasures of being on swinging scene.

Choosing to live lifestyle, is just that, a choice. A PERSONAL CHOICE just as choosing a religion or a political party to become affiliated with.

Although swinging lifestyle has become more recognized and accepted by society, discretion among swingers is still of utmost importance. Employers as well as family and non lifestyle minded acquaintances seem to view swinging as immoral and threatening to existence of traditional marriage and male/female relationship.

Please allow me to say that serious swinging couples, couples with strong, loving marriages/relationships do not enter into lifestyle looking for something better than what they have in their existing marriage/relationship.

Couples enter into lifestyle seeking to fulfill fantasies and desires of which are nothing more than foreplay for their intimate encounters alone together. The lifestyle is an enhancement just as watching an erotic movie or reading an erotic story. A "mood setter" of sorts .

Others are much too "young" at thirty. A good approach is to find out average age when people actually do marry. In most developed countries, age of most men today at time of first marriage is about twenty-four. Their brides are slightly over twenty-one.

Contrary to popular opinion, people of today are not older, but younger at time of marriage than they were fifty years ago. Having considered briefly average ages at which people do marry, let us now consider good age to marry.