Are You A Self-Saboteur?A Questionnaire by Suzanne Falter-Barns, http://www.howmuchjoy.com
Take this questionnaire to get clear on what you may be doing to undermine your own success and happiness in life. An explanation of your score awaits at
end.
1. When someone offers help you usually a) answer no without even thinking b) consider for a moment, but then decide their help would be inadequate c) consider for a moment, but then decide it would be asking for too much d) happily accept
2. Your level of organization is a) catastrophic -- you can't even find your toothbrush at night b) okay, except that when it comes to your dream you tend to keep everything on tiny slips of paper that get lost c) not bad ... you organize everything. It's just that you never act on it d) fine -- you keep a running file or list of what you need to do on your dream projects every day
3. If someone gives you a key contact, you a) tuck it away in a pocket with no intention of using it anytime soon b) stick it in a safe place in your organizer or wallet, then lose it c) put it on your desk where it sits untouched for
next four months d) get in touch with that person within a few days
4. When opportunity knocks a) you get a strange feeling in your gut and do nothing b) you always manage to get sick c) you seize
opportunity, but not until after several hours hair-tearing while you try to find necessary materials,
correct directions, a parking place, an open Fed Ex office, etc. d) you open
door and let it in
5. The idea of being prepared, i.e. keeping an extra clean suit handy, having a beeper, always keeping extra promotion materials on hand, seems a) downright silly b) like a good idea, but one you probably wouldn't do c) smart, and you may even do one or two of these things d) critical -- you even keep extra panty hose on hand, and business cards in your gym bag
6. The idea that someday you will be successful enough to call your own shots seems a) unlikely b) scary, but possible c) likely ... if you could just get your act together somehow d) fated