Are You Two-Faced?Written by Kathy Thompson
When you look at a face, first draw an imaginary vertical line down center of face from forehead to chin. Notice difference in two sides of face. Are you two-faced? Yes, you are, everyone is, literally. The left side of brain controls right side of face/body. So right side of face will show your logical, intellect, thinking, your computer, your public, professional side. The right side of brain controls left side of face/body. So left side of your face displays your emotions, imagination, dreams, intuition, your personal side. This is side you keep to yourself. The asymmetric face shows that a person can have one personality style in their personal life (left side), and a different style in their professional life right side).
Feel Your GriefWritten by Rinatta Paries
I recently asked a friend of mine who has been single for several years if she was complete with her past relationships. It's been my experience that one cannot move forward into healthy new relationships until they are complete with their past. My friend said she had no feelings left about her old relationships.
After a little prodding, she admitted she had managed to get over her divorce by getting into a relationship quickly after her marriage ended. "I was amazed at how easily I could forget my husband," she said. Her relationship with her new boyfriend lasted only a few months, and yet she says she still has feelings for him.
Is my friend ready for another new relationship? Perhaps if she wants her next relationship to closely resemble her previous two. But not if she wants something different.
The only way to forget a former relationship as soon as you enter a new one is by avoiding your feelings of grief over breakup. You would instead look for new relationship to fill you up.
The only way to do this is to hold your needs, wants, and desires trapped in your heart, unfelt, unmet, and waiting for next partner. Although most singles think this is what they are supposed to do, it is not.