Are You Afraid of Change?Written by Brian Maloney
Change, no matter how you cut it, can certainly be a daunting task. There are so many ways to change; your image, attitude, environment, perceptions, addictions, and how you treat others. However, let’s explore reasons for change. Firstly, aspects in your life that negatively affect self progression, whether put upon yourself or not, scream loudest to be changed. Many times guarded vaults inside ourselves mask this need for change, due to false pride, or mere misperception of how change can improve our quality of life. As a result, a vicious cycle of negativity will hover if these changes fail to be made. So then, how do we know when to prioritize a needful change so that it can be properly made? No matter how blind one can get, signs from friends and family, or negative reactions to your conduct by others can definitely be most telling, and that’s where you would start. This recognition is a crucial beginning point, because if you can’t recognize and then admit, then you will always be in denial of your infractions. For example: If you are a drug addict or any type of addict for that matter, only way you are going to get clean of that chemical is not by force from state or your family, but from within. This introspection, though through a haze of chemicals or denial is tough, cannot be overstated in its importance. Although, when done with logic and perspective, it can be utterly empowering. How does someone muster up enough will to make a critical change?
| | The #1 Way to Control your Mind for Success!Written by Carl Cholette
People say: "One can't help one's thoughts." But one can. The control of thinking machine is perfectly possible. And since nothing whatever happens to us outside our own brain; since nothing hurts us or gives us pleasure except within brain, supreme importance of being able to control what goes on in that mysterious brain is patent. This idea is one of oldest platitudes, but it is a platitude whose profound truth and urgency most people live and die without realising. People complain of lack of power to concentrate, not witting that they may acquire power, if they choose.And without power to concentrate; that is to say, without power to dictate to brain its task and to ensure obedience; true life is impossible. Mind control is first element of a full existence. Hence, it seems to me, first business of day should be to put mind through its paces. You look after your body, inside and out; you run grave danger in hacking hairs off your skin; you employ a whole army of individuals, to enable you to bribe your stomach into decent behaviour. Why not devote a little attention to far more delicate machinery of mind, especially as you will require no extraneous aid? It is for this portion of art and craft of living that I have reserved time from moment of quitting your door to moment of arriving at your office. "What? I am to cultivate my mind in street, at office, in bus, and in crowded street again?" Precisely. Nothing simpler! No tools required! Not even a book. Nevertheless, affair is not easy. When you leave your house, concentrate your mind on a subject (no matter what, to begin with). You will not have gone ten yards before your mind has skipped away under your very eyes and is larking round corner with another subject. Bring it back by scruff of neck. There you have reached station you will have brought it back about forty times. Do not despair. Continue. Keep it up. You will succeed. You cannot by any chance fail if you persevere. It is idle to pretend that your mind is incapable of concentration. Do you not remember that morning when you received a disquieting letter which demanded a very carefully worded answer? How you kept your mind steadily on subject of answer, without a second's intermission, until you reached your office; whereupon you instantly sat down and wrote answer? That was a case in which "you" were focused by circumstances to such a degree of vitality that you were able to dominate your mind like a tyrant. You would have no trifling. You insisted that its work should be done, and its work was done.
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