Anchors Away!

Written by Greg Reid


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Anchors Away!

If we want to fill our heads withrepparttar 104168 doom and gloom society seems to thrive on, all we need to do is turn onrepparttar 104169 local news at night. To make that quantum leap toward personal happiness and success in life, sometimes we just need to do what so many people seem to be talking about lately: “clean house” and take personal inventory ofrepparttar 104170 people we associate with most.

One of my favorite quotes of all time is, “Avoidrepparttar 104171 ugly people.” Mind you, when I say ugly, it has nothing to do with physical appearance. The comment illustrates that to best achieve our goals and wants in life, we should surround ourselves with other like-minded people to support us on our journey. In other words, we need to clean house of our own “ugly people” who, for some strange reason, we feelrepparttar 104172 need to hold onto.

Maybe you’ll relate to a personal example from my own life. Onrepparttar 104173 surface, Mark (not his real name) was a pretty nice guy. I thought of him as my personal anchor, someone who kept me grounded and helped me stay on focus and direction. But every time I’d venture out into something new, Mark would put his “ugly” hat on. Rather than becoming a voice of reason or attempting to illuminate both sides of a given situation, he’d only tell me aboutrepparttar 104174 horrors of such an idea and how crazy it was for me to even think that way. He made it clear that without him, I’d float off into despair. (I mean, could you imagine me, of all people, wanting to write a book, start my own company, or dive intorepparttar 104175 volatile and unstable real estate market?)

Life's True ROI

Written by Charles McCaron


"How do I know if my company is a failure?"

"How do I know when to throw inrepparttar towel?"

"Is it time to abandon ship?"

"Should I declare bankruptcy or just skip town and run to Mexico?"

As a business consultant; first inrepparttar 104167 corporate world and now running my own Internet-based advice company, I have heardrepparttar 104168 above questions numerous times. All small and medium-sized business owners have at some point or another wondered if they tookrepparttar 104169 wrong path and should quit while they are still somewhat ahead.

The textbook MBA answer to such questions is very corporate and boring. Advisors will typically tell a business owner to look atrepparttar 104170 total debt load and ROI, whetherrepparttar 104171 industry as a whole is in a slump, whether there are too many partner or legal problems, whether future demand will materialize and so on and so forth. While these questions are certainly relevant,repparttar 104172 most important question that a small or medium-sized business owner should ask him/herself is:

"How else can I make a living and would I like it?"

Yes,repparttar 104173 advantages of being a corporate employee are great. Easy work, fewer hours, no stress, more security and all for more money than your struggling business (for now) can provide. But do you really want to go back to that?

My grandfather was an architect who built boring glass boxes in overcrowded and polluted cities for obnoxious, cheap and arrogant millionaire and billionaire bosses and clients. My grandfather was also a poet who loved to write short, life-affirming sayings that raisedrepparttar 104174 soul and redeemedrepparttar 104175 human spirit.

He was on his way to making large amounts of money building these glass boxes, until one day he could no longer handle it another minute, so he stood up in a meeting whilerepparttar 104176 billionaires were bickering, declared that he was quitting, packed up his office and drove home to my grandmother and their two young children.

The conversation at home went something like this:

"Whatrepparttar 104177 heck were you thinking?"

"I can’t go back Alice, I just can’t. That world is slowly killing my soul byrepparttar 104178 minute. I want to breathe, I want to live, I want to smile and I want to laugh."

"How are we going to affordrepparttar 104179 mortgage andrepparttar 104180 BMWs andrepparttar 104181 vacation home andrepparttar 104182 kids’ college funds and ..."



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