In Corrogue air is chill and frost is on ground.

On these autumn mornings spider’s webs are glistening like each was arrayed with diamonds. The red berries of holly stand out against dark green of their shining leaves. It is a time simply to look and be glad at wonder of this creativity. It is a time simply to stand and stare.

Like many people I receive unsolicited mail. This is by ordinary post and by email. Yesterday I received, via post, a letter inviting me to train as a “Life Coach.” As a writer on “being enough” I reflected on what it is to have need for a “Life Coach.”

In this "Type A" society life coaching might compound problem of “doing more” and “being less.” So I share with you what I see as blessing of life beyond coaching. This is not to invalidate wonderful work that many dedicated individuals bring to this profession out of a sense of love and compassion.

1.You are a “being.”

In this rush into noise and haste of this 21st Century we forget we are “human beings.” Life Coaching that takes you away from this essence takes you further from “life.” It may take you further into “doing your life.” This may mean you achieve more. You may be more successful. You might achieve more goals, but you might also miss. You might miss this extraordinary blessing of simply being alive. You might miss journey and only ever be focused on arriving.

2.You already know “life.”

You are a mystery. You are unique. No one knows you better than yourself. In this respect you are all knowing. You need to start to trust this. You need to start to trust in process. Be one who knows. We are taught throughout our lives to accumulate knowledge. We put aside our “inner telling sense” to be filled up with rational thought alone. You are already expert. You do not need more knowledge of how to do. You need to be more and do less. The paradox is that in learning to be more you are able to do more in less and less time.

3.You are beautiful.

Take time for beauty. Beauty is not a function of goal setting and time management. Beauty is your essence. If you miss this essentialness then you truly miss. No amount of “life coaching” will compensate for a life of achievement alone. Beauty is where you belong. It is your birthright. There is nothing you need to do in order to realise this. As sage Lao Tzu advised. “The way to do is to be.” This is productive beyond measure because it is magical.

4.You are at one.

Do you see people getting great results for seemingly doing same as everyone else?

This article is about power of Going The Extra Mile.

If you're an Internet Marketer then this could be important for you, for anyone else it should be a fundamental way of life as well.

I believe that our lives are a little bit like a computer game: We start off with all of variables and parameters available to us with unlimited possible paths and outcomes. As our lives progress, we make decisions and pick up tools along way. Those same circumstances are there for other people too, but somehow each person makes different choices and takes a different path, ultimately leading to different end results.

If you've been involved in any online projects, or even just been part of a couple of Joint Ventures, you'll see that (just as in a computer game), people that approach things with complete game in mind, do a lot of little extra things with miraculously seem to make a lot of difference. They make sure they've considered all of options before moving forward, but they understand need for urgency in order to finish within time limits. They look for all of possible opportunities before leaving an area of consideration.

These people go extra mile to ensure that they don't get near end of their game and realise they missed something vital along way. These people go extra mile to do all little things that only make a small difference at time but combine to make a huge difference in long run.