Read about how we can better appreciate, empathize with, and respect
diverse people, energies, and opinions that we come in contact with on a daily basis.My Aikido teacher Koichi Tohei sensei used to say that in a healthy person
flow of their "ki" (the energy inherent throughout
Universe) is like
outpouring of an underground spring sitting at
bottom of a deep lake. The spring feeds water to
lake, much like we can feed
universe healing energy. The spring feeds
lake a constant flow of water without ever being diminished, and this outpouring of water is not impeded by
weight and pressure of
lake bearing down upon it. When ki flows it follows
path of least resistance. This is a path of great power. As human beings we are designed to feed energy to
universe, by following a path of least resistance. This feeding of "our" energy is what helps us to also maintain our own personal health and well being. We receive by giving, because our ki belongs to
Universe, and not to any one individual.
In this article I want to talk about how we can better appreciate, empathize with, and respect
diverse people, energies, and opinions that we come in contact with on a daily basis. I hope to give some small insight into how we can begin to understand
paradox of One common energy source feeding all of
diversity and difference that we see around us. In Aikido we practice what I guess could be called a "physical" discipline to accomplish this. We PRACTICE appreciation, empathy, and respect, in regard to our partner, with
hope that some day in
future our practice will transform into an embodied reality. We practice breathing exercises and meditation, and in
course of these experiences we have a sense of being one with
universe.
In Aikido, as new students we first learn how to balance our physical structure and relax
body's musculature. It is this balance and release of excess muscular tension that allows
weight of
body's trunk to come to a natural resting place in our lower abdomen, in
general area of our reproductive organs. This area in our lower abdomen is what Tohei sensei calls "the one point" and he exhorts his students to maintain
feeling of
body's weight resting naturally in this area. By maintaining physical balance and relaxation we release excess physical tension, calm
thinking mind, and sense a common bond with all of life. At such times we naturally generate a copious flow of ki, and exude a healing presence to those around us. Previously I said that ki is
life force that animates all living beings and that all living beings share and utilize
SAME energy source,
same ki,
same spirit. In Aikido we call this shared universal spirit "reiseishin." When we balance and relax
body, unify our thoughts and actions, and calm our thinking mind, we manifest an outpouring of "Reseishin" in
same manner that a mother holding her newborn baby exudes and expresses love, protection, and compassion. When we experience
flow of "reiseishin" we naturally appreciate, empathize with, and respect all of life.
For me personally, what is important to say in regard to sensing
flow of "reiseishin" is that
experience is not generated by
activity of
thinking mind. Our sense of unity with all of life comes about when we "do only what is necessary, and nothing more or less." It is this "doing less" that leads to greater power and a greater sense of connection to life. We gain
paradoxical experience of calmness and action being two sides of
same coin. One being
mirror image of
other. Great calmness leads to great action, like a hurricane radiating out from its calm "eye." Great action leads to great calmness, as when a strongly thrown top rights itself and calmly spins round its center.
When you balance and relax your body, unify your thoughts and actions, and calm your thinking mind, you move from an experience of duality to an experience of commonality. At such times you understand experientially what is paradoxical to
thinking mind - That so much difference comes from One source.
You breathe deeply and sense
simultaneous inflow and outflow of ki. You breathe deeply and feel a "heavy-lightness" in
body. You breathe deeply and sense
"immovable-movement" of your spirit.
When you sense and move with
energy that is manifesting throughout
universe you find that you have a greater ability to live a life that is healthy and fulfilling, a greater sense of valuing and protecting all of life. When you learn to instinctively move with others rather than attempting to oppose them, you quickly come to a sense of intuitively understanding your counterpart's thoughts and actions, and you increase
likelihood of your being able to gently lead your counterpart in new directions in
future. This is certainly a timely topic given
current conditions in
world today. Aikido is a martial art that wages peace. We have no attack form in Aikido, even though Aikido is very much an effective form of self-defense. As I said previously, in Aikido we cultivate an experience that leads us to believe that all living beings utilize and share a common energy source (ki) that helps to run and maintain our environment as well as our individual human systems. We believe that since we all share a common energy source, that in some important way we are all truly members of
same family, and that we share our lives with all of nature. We do not have an attack form in Aikido, because attacking another human being would be like attacking a family member that you love. One of
main ideas of Aikido is to find a way to honor and protect your own being, your own opinions, your own right to life, while CONCURRENTLY honoring and protecting
same in your opponent. Not at all a simple task, but one well worth trying to embody.