My experience is first hand. I dated many Asian ladies and have heard comments. If we frequent a typical American club, I have had my dates threaten by American women in restroom. In time, Asian clubs sprung up in United States. At an Asian club, American women are welcome. I have never seen an American lady being threaten by Asians in a typical Asian club. It just isn’t their nature. The crowd in these clubs are usually Asian ladies and American men.

There are many Asian ladies in U.S., especially from Philippines. A lot of these ladies arrived via meeting an American G.I. I really don’t know percentage, but there is no doubt that most Filipina ladies have a military connection in some way. They met in Philippines, got married, and came to United States with their military husband. Consequently, you’ll meet Asian ladies in clubs who are married. If you mingle with Asian ladies that frequent clubs for any length of time, you will eventually meet ladies who are unfaithful. This unfaithfulness is how Filipina ladies are branded as whores by American women. This doesn’t carry same stigma for American women who may do same. Hypocrisy is always evident when behaviors of two cultures are compared.

What American GI has discovered is now catching on with non-military men. Asian dating sites have sprung up all over internet. Some of these sites try to exploit Asians’ sexuality. However, there are many Asian ladies who want to meet a sincere gentlemen for a relationship. As attractive as Asian ladies may be, American men are also captivated by Asians’ behavior towards men. A man’s dream of having a wife who wants to please him, appreciates his love and treasures his efforts in making a home seems to have been found by American men in Asian culture. You’ll hear American men call these values “traditional values” because at one time these were values that held American family together.

The tired argument about these women being a servant to their husband, is one sided. Do these women like serving their husband? Yes, most do. But not as slaves. They are not forced to do so, but have desire to please their man out of appreciation and love. These ladies are doing what they want to do. I repeat, they WANT to please their man, do things for him and show their appreciation. In turn, these men are happy, want to provide for their wife and have no desire to look elsewhere for this appreciation. It’s chemistry that once prevailed many years ago in United States and has been lost in myriad of women rights in American society.