Any man who has dated Asian ladies who live in United States, has witness wrath, jealously and prejudice of American women towards Asian ladies. I know I have, as have many of my friends. The stereotypical has some merit: American women canít compete against Asiansí sexuality, American women feel threaten and some American women simply think Asians are stealing their men. These all bear some truth.
My experience is first hand. I dated many Asian ladies and have heard comments. If we frequent a typical American club, I have had my dates threaten by American women in restroom. In time, Asian clubs sprung up in United States. At an Asian club, American women are welcome. I have never seen an American lady being threaten by Asians in a typical Asian club. It just isnít their nature. The crowd in these clubs are usually Asian ladies and American men.
There are many Asian ladies in U.S., especially from Philippines. A lot of these ladies arrived via meeting an American G.I. I really donít know percentage, but there is no doubt that most Filipina ladies have a military connection in some way. They met in Philippines, got married, and came to United States with their military husband. Consequently, youíll meet Asian ladies in clubs who are married. If you mingle with Asian ladies that frequent clubs for any length of time, you will eventually meet ladies who are unfaithful. This unfaithfulness is how Filipina ladies are branded as whores by American women. This doesnít carry same stigma for American women who may do same. Hypocrisy is always evident when behaviors of two cultures are compared.
What American GI has discovered is now catching on with non-military men. Asian dating sites have sprung up all over internet. Some of these sites try to exploit Asiansí sexuality. However, there are many Asian ladies who want to meet a sincere gentlemen for a relationship. As attractive as Asian ladies may be, American men are also captivated by Asiansí behavior towards men. A manís dream of having a wife who wants to please him, appreciates his love and treasures his efforts in making a home seems to have been found by American men in Asian culture. Youíll hear American men call these values ďtraditional valuesĒ because at one time these were values that held American family together.
The tired argument about these women being a servant to their husband, is one sided. Do these women like serving their husband? Yes, most do. But not as slaves. They are not forced to do so, but have desire to please their man out of appreciation and love. These ladies are doing what they want to do. I repeat, they WANT to please their man, do things for him and show their appreciation. In turn, these men are happy, want to provide for their wife and have no desire to look elsewhere for this appreciation. Itís chemistry that once prevailed many years ago in United States and has been lost in myriad of women rights in American society.
Why do Filipina women want to marry a foreigner from another country? Iím not going to argue fact that these ladies want a better life. Itís probably true. I will argue that most women, no matter country, want to marry in to a better life. Again, it is hypocrisy of who you are that makes a behavior negative or not. Most women, in United States, need to look in a mirror before judging ladies from other cultures. Besides wanting a better life, most Asian ladies want better treatment. In a Filipina ladyís eyes, men from West treat women better then men from their country. Is there truth to this? The feed back I get from ladies at my website is yes or at least they perceive it to be so. Iím sure social status of your family makes a difference of how you are treated regardless of your gender, but Iím talking about average Filipina lady. The difference is simple. In her country what she does for her man or husband is expected without appreciation. Here in United States, most men come to expect a lady isnít required to serve him, to want to please him, and love him for who he is. When an Asian lady does, his appreciation is certain. For an Asian lady, man doesnít have to be super rich or look like a movie star, just treat her well and show his love. Itís a merry-go-round with respect and love as itís focal point. She wants to please him, he loves her for pleasing him, she loves him for showing he appreciates her love and so on.