"Tell me what company thou keepst, and I'll tell thee what thou art." - Miguel de Cervantes (1547 - 1616) Spanish novelist. Growing up I often heard my best friend's father Nick say, "Show me who your friends are and I'll tell you what you are!"
Well, that was usually followed by a long speech about why his son Frank should not have hung out with certain people.
I was like a second son to Nick so I would get to listen in on Frank getting yelled at. By that time, I had already been homeless and off
streets and working my way through High School, so I never thought of hanging out with
types that Frank did. Of course I was no angel but, I chose my friends as carefully as I could.
Frank never got
point back then, but Nick knew very well about
power of association.
You see Nick, grew up
only son of an entrepreneur and brother to six sisters. Since he was
baby boy, he got a lot of attention and love from his father. Although all of
children did, Nick got just a little more.
Nick's father
owner of a motel and a construction company could rival
strength and attitude of
strongest of
strongmen of his day and even ours. He grew up with
same mentality of his father AND
strength to boot!
The problem with Nick was that he associated with
street gangs of his day and didn't listen to his father when he gave him
same speech, "Show me who your friends are and I'll tell you what you are!"
Associating with
wrong people didn't end there though, later in life he ended up associating himself with
some of
most ruthless mobsters around and as time went on, Nick gained both
wealth and
bad habits these guys had.
Finally
days came when his acquired gambling addiction took all of
wealth away. Although he could have lost his life many times, it took
loss of his money to finally stop associating himself with these people.
"Associate yourself with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation; for 'tis better to be alone than in bad company." - George Washington (1732 - 1799) US Statesman