It often seems to be norm to just sit and think about your goals in an almost static fashion whereby you can see your goal in your mind and you think about it for a few minutes each day. This is a good initial method as it is straightforward and easy to do.

However, once you have become used to simply thinking about your goals on a daily basis, it is then time to go a stage further and really start to pull your ambitions right up to you utilising power of imagery and breath.

What I want you to do is this. Have your goal in your mind and, to begin with, have a mental picture of it being far away. Imagine it as a distant object that requires some effort to attain.

From here focus on pulling your ambition towards you using an image of a lasso. See it wrapping firmly around your distant goal and then slowly pull it towards you. With each slow deep inhalation you pull it that much nearer to.

Your mother always told you that you only get one chance to make a first impression and first impressions can make or break you. Women look at every last detail, from your tasseled shoes to amount of goop you have in your hair. Be honest guys, women aren’t only ones who try on five different outfits before deciding what to wear for a night out on town. And it is perfectly normal. But how do you know which outfit is right one to impress girl on your first date?

Let me take you through it step by step. Clothes aren’t only thing a woman looks at when you’re dressing to impress; it’s whole package. Fortunately or not, outside is what she sees first. What you see is sometimes what you get. So what do you wear?

Out with Old…

Rule number one is: don’t under dress. Guys have a tendency to pull on a pair of pants and first shirt they find and head out door. You have to look put-together, like some sort of effort was made for her. So take those ratty, old tennis shoes and toss ‘em! Take your t-shirts with big, loud prints and forget about them! And yes, women think carpenters are sexy but that doesn’t give you green light to wear your paint-stained jeans. The solution is simple. Ask a friend (male or female) over day of your big date. Not only will they help calm your nerves but they’ll also give you their honest opinion on your chosen outfit. Second, an iron can also be a man’s best friend. You’d be surprised what a little pressing can do to change your look. Finally, don’t rush! There’s nothing wrong with taking an extra half hour to prepare. If you take time to get ready, your date will take time to notice.

…In with New