A Simple Little Holiday PlanWritten by Bridget Messino
The Thanksgiving leftovers have all been eaten and gift-buying season has shifted into high gear. Remain calm and prepare yourself for most jam-packed month in calendar year. There are a small percentage of you who may actually have completed your to-do list long before everyone else. (If this is you, then kick back and relax.) The rest of you needn’t despair! Just read on for essential steps in holiday preparation. The key to preparing yourself for all craziness is a well thought out plan. Believe it or not, simple act of putting it down on paper can give you some peace. I am not sure why seeing my obligations and tasks in black and white are more calming than letting them race through my mind, but it really works. During December, holiday plan that I depend on is divided into four separate sections or categories. They are: Cards Gifts Social/Community Obligations Decorating (Keep an extra copy of your gift list in car, because you never know where your daily travels will take you.) Holiday Cards This year, if you have not already, transfer all of your names and addresses from your address book to a word processing file so you can easily print labels. My recommendation is to use clear labels, because they go with any choice of envelope color. Tip: if you are mailing over-sized envelopes, go to post office early to have a sample weighed so you can purchase necessary postage. (Don’t forget about adding those new friends and purging ones that drive you crazy. I especially like to purge those who can only talk about themselves and their stuff, how boring!!) Presents, presents, and more presents Make a list of all people that are going to be recipients of your hard work. To minimize some effort, consider different options. If individuals are in same household, consider a group gift. If you have children to buy for and their parents don’t have any suggestions (because Tommy and Susie have every possible toy out there), offer to pay for a special activity or a couple of lessons of their choice. Last year my parents picked up riding lessons for our daughter and it was a great gift for all. Our daughter loved it, my husband did not have to open his wallet, and I did not have house more “stuff”.
| | Stress-Free Holiday EntertainingWritten by Bridget Messino
The holiday season is upon us! It is a time when family and friends gather together. Some people love to entertain and enjoy bringing people together. Others feel stressed with these obligations. Whether it is a large gala for everyone you know, hosting family holiday dinner or just having a few close friends over for a meal, planning and organization can make difference between feeling stressed and being able to enjoy your event. The following simple tips can help you prepare your house, prepare food and handle final details. Preparing House So how organized is your house right now? So often people become overwhelmed with idea of entertaining; they get stuck as to where to start. Think about how your house will be used. Will this be a sit down meal in your dining room? Will groups separate into different rooms to talk or watch TV? Will your guests be staying overnight? Start early enough and focus first on rooms that will really be used. Don’t worry about ones that you think someone may wander into if they get lost on way to bathroom. Go through each room, one at a time. If there is a room that hasn’t been de-cluttered in awhile, sort through everything by dividing items into toss, donate and keep piles. This is a great time to make your donations and get that tax deduction in before end of year. Throw out items no longer needed and put away items to be kept in their appropriate place. Think about who is coming to your house. If you have items that are breakable or valuable, consider simplifying items in main gathering room so you and your guests (and their children) don’t have to worry about accidents that could put a damper on evening. These items can be put up or wrapped up and stored in a plastic bin, which can be hidden in a basement or bedroom during party and brought out easily next day. Depending on whatever else is going on in your life and if budget allows it, treat yourself to a cleaning service before your event. If funds won’t stretch that far, get whole family involved and divide tasks up. Another option is to trade blocks of time with a good friend. Also make sure you have enough supplies on hand (toilet paper, disposable hand towels for powder room, paper towels in kitchen, etc.) and that they are easily accessible if needed during time your guests are in your home. If you give yourself enough lead-time and work at picking up and cleaning in manageable increments, you won’t get burned out and will only need to do a quick tidy day of your event. Preparing Food Now that your house is ready for guests, it’s time to focus on food. Many people dread food preparation that goes along with entertaining. Whether it is because they are uncertain of their cooking skills or they just don’t have time to devote to it, solution is same.
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