A New Years Resolution – Rest

Written by Kimberly Chastain


I rarely meet a mother who is not tired. Sometimes I think that isrepparttar definition of being a mother. As soon as you sit down to relax someone needs something or there is a “crisis”. A definition of a crisis certainly is inrepparttar 126475 eye ofrepparttar 126476 beholder. We all get tired and when we get tired we often neglect our time alone with God.

Recently, I got a way for a weekend by myself. I was weary, tired, and needed relief. I stopped atrepparttar 126477 grocery store before I left and saw a book entitled, “When Women Need to Rest” by Cindy McMenamin. (You will seerepparttar 126478 book onrepparttar 126479 Resource page of www.christianworkingmom.com) The book was calling my name. So, I gotrepparttar 126480 book and took it on my trip. I desperately needed to hear what it said.

One important point ofrepparttar 126481 book that stuck out in my mind (my paraphrase) was: Maybe God wants you to start doing less for him and just spend time with him. When wasrepparttar 126482 last time you rested inrepparttar 126483 Lord? Do you come running to him and want to just crawl up in his lap and rest? Often, as women we give and give until there is nothing left.

Are Your Children Growing Up Too Fast?

Written by Kimberly Chastain


Each time our children graduate from one stage to another (i.e. crawling - walking, preschool - school, highschool - graduation) we as parents are excited and a little sad as well. We want our children to grow up, but we reminisce aboutrepparttar "good old" days. I think those mixed feelings are normal for all of us. My question for you is - "Are your children growing up too fast emotionally and socially?" We can't stop their physical growth, but we can effect their emotional and social growth.

Our society is compressing childhood more and more to where children are not children for very long. We only have 18 years in our entire life to be children. We struggle as parents to keep our children innocent. Unfortunately,repparttar 126474 events of September 11th stole away even more of our children's innocence.

Children are not little adults. Often, children dress like adults in miniature. Children want to emulate their teen or adult heroes in dress and talk. As parents we are fighting a raging river in keeping our children young and innocent. Society, schools, and parents are pushing children to grow up too fast.

Answerrepparttar 126475 following questions to see if your children are growing up too fast?

1. Do your children want to wear clothing that is designed for much older children?

2. Do your younger children want to watch TV shows designed for teenagers? Do your teenagers want to watch adult TV shows that contain sex and violence?

3. Arerepparttar 126476 books your children are reading age appropriate?

4. Are your children involved in so many extra-curricular activities they have no down time to just explore or goof off?

5. Are your children losing that wonderful "childish" sense of wonder aboutrepparttar 126477 world or do they know it all?

6. Do your find your children are growing increasingly inpatient and have to be entertained? Do they often say I'm bored?

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