The hard way is to work night and day, stay obsessed, rarely sleep, and never give up.

Since everyone talks about hard way, I want to address easy way. After all, why struggle if you don't have to?

I've used easy way to create bestselling books, lose 70 pounds in 8 months, find my ideal mate, get healthy, increase my wealth, and much more.

Obviously, it works.

Here's formula in brief:

1. Be grateful for what you already have.

2. Playfully declare what you would like to have with positive emotion, feeling as if it is already achieved.

3. Act on nudges and opportunities that appear.

That's it. In my latest book, "The Attractor Factor," I explain a 5-step formula for getting what you want. It's useful for those times when you don't feel grateful, or can't decide on what you want, or don't understand concept of letting go while taking inspired action. It's also helpful when you have issues about money, or deserving, or feel in any way blocked from your goals.

But bottom-line for me is this: Declare what you would like with no attachment and plenty of good feeling, feel grateful for what you already have, and act on what appears. The result will be manifestation of a happy life.

Let's explore this in depth.

1. Feel grateful now.

It doesn't mater where you live or what you have. If you're reading this, you're most likely living like a king or queen compared to people in third world countries. You may even be living better than kings or queens from history, as they often lived in cold, violent, frightful times. You've got it made.

2. Choose what you want without attachment, feeling as if it is already achieved.

There's magic in saying "Id love to---(fill in blank) but I won't die if I don't have it." Since world is simply energy taking form, when you declare you want something, you begin to attract it. But when you say you need something, need pushes it away. You want to select your desire, and feel joy of already having it, without feeling any desperation. Need will push it away; Desire will attract it. If you feel as if you *already* have it, then you *will* have it.

I’m sure there are some of you who know people who refused to adapt to computer age. I still know some “old timers” who want to use word processors or even typewriters instead! Imagine. What is up with that?

Well, when change comes we have several options, some of which are more adaptive than others. Let’s take a look at them.

The first option is to refuse to change or adapt to any new circumstances, just like person who still uses a word processor. These are generally people who are afraid of change. I also think that underlying that fear is fear of being inadequate. When change requires new learning, as it often does, some people don’t think they will be able to master new skills so it is easier to simply renounce changes than adapt. The problem is that these are people who are left in dust.

The second possibility is slow starter. These people usually start out in one of first two mentioned roles---either refusing to change or anxiously running around trying to figure out what to do about it. They do not like change any more than next person and they resist and resist until one day, they realize that change may actually bring benefits. Once they see that there is a payoff for them, they fairly easily do necessary things to adapt to change.

A third possibility is what we see in over anxious people in our midst. You know who they are. They are ones who are always making mountains out of molehills and have a nervous energy about them whenever confronted with a novel situation. They imagine all possible scenarios about what could occur and seem to just go around in circles. They don’t adapt to change; they just worry themselves sick over it.