ARE YOU PLACING YOUR CHILDREN IN DANGER?

Written by LINDA J ALEXANDER, ESQ


More than ever before it has become absolutely crucial for people to pay attention to their surroundings andrepparttar people they meet. There are now hundreds of organizations and websites dedicated torepparttar 111328 safety and welfare of young children and yet, children are being abducted every single day.

The Federal Interagency Forum on Child and Family Statistics reveals more than one third of America's children are being raised by one biological parent who very often has a live-in boyfriend or girlfriend, or eventual step-parent. Statistically speaking, children raised in these settings have a forty percent greater chance of being abused than children living with both biological parents. Always scrutinize people before allowing them access to your child! If you are considering a live-in housemate of any kind, you may benefit fromrepparttar 111329 information available from WhoisHe.Com or WhoisShe.Com before they move in.

Conscientious and caring parents can benefit from programs that take DNA samplings, and fingerprints of their children to keep on file in case they are ever needed to help find or identify their youngster. All parents are busy parents, yet they need to MAKErepparttar 111330 time to plan ahead to safeguardrepparttar 111331 children who depend on them.

One ofrepparttar 111332 best ways to protect children is to take regular photographs of them as they grow. This information can then be provided quickly if ever it becomes necessary to issue an "Amber alert", or any other search for a missing child.

Though we live in a very busy world we ought to train ourselves and our families to pay attention to details so they can be remembered and reported if needed. Considerrepparttar 111333 events surroundingrepparttar 111334 kidnapping of Elizabeth Smart who was forcibly taken from her bed inrepparttar 111335 middle ofrepparttar 111336 night. Her sister, who slept inrepparttar 111337 same room, was so terrified it took hours before she could wake her parents and tell them. Elizabeth was missing for nine months. Her little sister's traumatic experience of an intruder awakening and abducting her sister delayed her ability to realize that she could identifyrepparttar 111338 kidnapper. When she finally was able to recallrepparttar 111339 name and description ofrepparttar 111340 person who took Elizabeth,repparttar 111341 entire family was horrified to learn he was someone they had innocently brought intorepparttar 111342 home as a day laborer. Their compassion for a stranger cost them nine months of their beloved daughter's life.

Still,repparttar 111343 Smarts were amongrepparttar 111344 very few fortunate families to reunite with a stolen child after such an extended amount of time. Sadly, statistics of children taken by strangers show that being gone for as little as three hours severely diminishesrepparttar 111345 chance they will be seen alive again. The Smart family strongly supports a nationwide "Amber alert" to help find missing children quickly. If they had required background searches on people who worked in their home, they would have discovered criminal records on not one, but TWO of those they hired! Just asking questions is not enough when you realize that a USA Today article states fully sixty percent of people lie about who they are! The loving Smart family would never have jeopardized their children. Instead they were being kind in an attempt to help strangers who very nearly destroyedrepparttar 111346 Smart family's happiness.

The Thanksgiving Blessing

Written by LeAnn R. Ralph


“Wouldn’t you just know it,” muttered my husband, Randy.

We had already been driving for a couple of hours in a pickup truck that we had borrowed from a friend, and now it was completely dark.

“What’s wrong?” I asked sleepily. I had dozed off only a few minutes ago.

“It’s starting to rain,” Randy replied, as he reached over to turn onrepparttar windshield wipers.

Rain? In a few seconds, I came fully awake. If it was raining, that meant Mom and Dad’s furniture was getting wet.

So far, it had been my worst Thanksgiving ever. Dad had passed away a month ago. My mother had died seven years earlier. When I was a kid, we always celebrated Thanksgiving at home. All four of my grandparents had died before I was born, and to me, Thanksgiving meant celebratingrepparttar 111327 holiday with Mom and Dad. But now, forrepparttar 111328 very first time in my whole life, all thirty-four years of it, there had been no one to spend Thanksgiving with at my parents’ place.

Randy and I did, however, have plenty of work to do at Mom and Dad's house. A family wanted to rent it, and we needed to have it cleaned out by Christmas. Randy and I had been married for a little less than six months, and this was hardlyrepparttar 111329 way that I had wanted us to spend our first Thanksgiving as a married couple. And yet, I knew it was no use waiting. That if we waited it wouldn’t bring either of my parents back. But cleaning outrepparttar 111330 house seemed so final. The end of a lifetime. The end of two lifetimes. I simply wasn’t ready. Although, if I were going to be honest with myself, I knew I probably never would be “ready.”

We had decided to take some of Mom and Dad’s furniture home with us. My parents' house was in west central Wisconsin, and my husband I lived two-hundred-and-fifty miles away inrepparttar 111331 southern part ofrepparttar 111332 state.

After we had loadedrepparttar 111333 first piece of furniture intorepparttar 111334 pickup truck we had borrowed, Mom and Dad's bedroom looked very empty withoutrepparttar 111335 dresser that they’d had for as long as I could remember. Inrepparttar 111336 top dresser drawer, my mother had kept some of her keepsakes, including a strand of blond hair. When I was a kid and had gotten my hair cut short, Mom wanted to save some of it. Dad’s drawer held a few keepsakes too. His old pocket watch, for one thing. Dad always carried a pocket watch. He had been a farmer, and he said a wristwatch would never surviverepparttar 111337 hardships of farm work (dust and water, grease and oil).

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