7 Destructive Habits of Incompetent People

Written by Michael Lee


WARNING! If you want to have a fantastic life, never engage yourself in these 7 deadly habits that incompetent people do.

NUMBER 1 - They Think, Say, & Do Negative Things.

Yup. They see problems in every opportunity.

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They think that everyone is against them. They seerepparttar 123245 problems but neverrepparttar 123246 solutions.

Every little bit of difficulty is exaggerated torepparttar 123247 point of tragedy. They regard failures as catastrophes. They become discouraged easily instead of learning from their mistakes.

They never seem to move forward because they're always afraid to come out of their comfort zones.

NUMBER 2 - They Act Before They Think.

They move based on instinst or impulse. If they see something they like, they buy at once without any second thought.

Then they see something better. They regret & curse for not able to take advantage ofrepparttar 123248 bargain.

Then they spend & spend again until nothing's left. They don't think aboutrepparttar 123249 future. What they're after isrepparttar 123250 pleasure they will experience at present.

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NUMBER 3 - They Talk Much More Than They Listen

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Oftentimes they are not aware that what they're saying is not sensible anymore.

When other people advise them, they close their ears because they're too proud to admit their mistakes.

In their mind they're always correct. They reject suggestions because that will make them feel inferior.

NUMBER 4 - They Give Up Easily

Successful people treat failures as stepping stones to success.

7 things you can do to reach the success you truly desire

Written by BZ Riger-Hull


Ever have those days where no matter what you try life seems to be a series of one step forward and two steps back? Well today isrepparttar very best day to take charge of your life and develop strategies to achieve personal success.

You will need to work hard and make a commitment to your personal success plan, but once you breakrepparttar 123241 inertia you will find that small achievements will help you gain momentum, and each step forward will attract more success.

1. Take a look atrepparttar 123242 one and only person responsible for your success- YOU. To be successful you must take complete responsibility for your actions. You can't pin your success or your shortcomings on anyone else.

2. Develop and nurture a successful self- Start by smiling more, look torepparttar 123243 positive side in everything. Don't list allrepparttar 123244 reasons why something is hard and you can't do it, findrepparttar 123245 reasons even if it is only one to start with of why you can do something. You must develop a successful persona to become a successful person.

3. Makerepparttar 123246 decision today- Decide today that you will be successful. Praise yourself for past accomplishments, take stock of your strong qualities and work to nurture and improve those that are underdeveloped. You have a purpose and a mission you must sweep asiderepparttar 123247 negative clutter and define this purpose and begin today to fulfill yourself.

4. Always begin withrepparttar 123248 positive- every morning you wake up, every time you speak with other people. Always stick withrepparttar 123249 positive. Associate with positive people. People who have also maderepparttar 123250 commitment to success. Avoid negative people at all costs. They will not only drag you down. Their negative actions and thoughts, their pessimism, whining, and complaining is a toxin and you need to steer clear of it.

5. Visualize and write down how you desire to live successfully- think ofrepparttar 123251 things that are meaningful to you. Things that give you pleasure, comfort, and fulfillment. Then being as specific as possible write down how you want to live. Don't listen to any ofrepparttar 123252 negative, just concentrate. Write down every detail, where you live, what your house is like down torepparttar 123253 decor. What you and your friends are passionate about, what kinds of community projects do you donate your time and money to. After writing everything down copyrepparttar 123254 most vivid and important things into a new journal. One you have chosen just for this. Makerepparttar 123255 journal come to life with drawings, photographs, magazine clippings, articles, and poetry. Images and words that will help your vision of a successful life crystallize in your mind. Look through this journal several times a week. Every day visualizing living that life. Make all of your actions in accordance with that successful life.

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