Body image is a big issue for some and a small issue for others...but it is an issue of some kind for almost everybody. Some people feel they are too wide. Others feel they are too thin. Some are too bald. Others too graying. Some too tall. Others too short.
Celebrities are not immune. Michael Jackson thinks he is too tanned. Pamela Anderson thinks she is too top-heavy. No, bottom heavy. No, make that top heavy. It gets hard to keep track. Even Oprah has had to struggle with body image.
I was reminded of this issue while shaving off my beard. Until recently, my face pranced around fully nude, flouting all local ordinances of public decency. Amazingly, my face was never arrested for this.
For background on my recent beard-growing experience: http://www.thehappyguy.com/beard1.html
I was keenly aware that seven-month old Little Sister would not recognize me without beard I have sported for most recent quarter of her life. She gets upset enough when my wife puts her hair up.
So I slowly shaved off my beard, letting Little Sister watch and touch so she would know that "after picture" is still her papa. Here are before, during and after pictures, by way: http://www.thehappyguy.com/beard3.html
This got me thinking about how much we depend on body image for recognition. When somebody loses 60 or 70 pounds, people don't always recognize her. Nor if she cuts her long, flowing hair really short. Nor if she grows a beard.
In animal kingdom, creatures recognize each other more by smell. Which is Mrs. Meow won't let Mr. Meow in after that barroom brawl with Mr. Skunk.
Some animals rely on sound to recognize each other. That's why birds chirp, wolves howl and trees bark.
And some animals rely on sight. The peacock struts his feathers to lure peahen into thinking she's found Mr. Right. She falls for that trick every time. So much for thousands of years of evolution.
We humans rely on body image to recognize ourselves, too. A positive body image says, "I am a success." A negative body image says, "I am a failure."