We all go through various stages of challenges in our lives which at times can threaten to erode our sense of self-worth. Here is what you can do.

1. Let go of your self-doubts by not ignoring them. Self doubts such as “I am not sure I can make this work” or “am I good enough?” can overpower you if you give in to them.

Know what your self doubts are. Do best you can to accept them without identifying yourself with their charged feelings. For these feelings are really not you. When you feel comfortable enough with feelings, release them. Let them go by repeating to yourself: "I can let go of these doubts, because they are not serving me”.

2. Raise your inner vibration by reminding yourself of your unique greatness. Most of us have made a habit of focusing our attention on our self doubts, that we end up losing sight of our greatness.

Remind yourself often about how far you have come in your life. Think of all you have achieved up to now. Maybe you have helped other people better themselves. You may have made some exceptional discoveries which have enriched lives of many. Or perhaps you have cared for your family with tender love, total dedication and commitment accompanied by tears and joy.

You have seen them on television your entire life: world leaders, movie stars, and yes, even infomercial darlings! These people almost seem incapable of self-doubt as their undeniable confidence exudes from their every pore, almost mesmerizing their audience. They are literally capable of convincing listeners to buy products they don’t really need, support causes without question, and follow when one would rather lead. What is their secret? How are they able to do what you or I could only dream of doing, and do it with such ease?

A rare personal quality attributed to leaders who arouse fervent popular devotion and enthusiasm; a personal magnetism or charm.

This is how dictionary defines charisma and it was precisely what all of those people you see on television have in abundance. Still, it really is not best of definitions because lacking is a clear-cut answer as to what precisely it, this charisma, really is. The ability to influence opinions and actions of others is a truly exciting and powerful thing, is it not? Who would not want to have such power? Where would our lives be today had we been born with charisma like all those people we see on television screen every night? Would we not be an entirely different person had we?